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OreosMom4_Ever

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It's been over 2 months. I sleep with the little box of ashes, your big picture on my dresser. The pillow I had made with your picture on it and the little box with your locks and collar also on my bed.  I am lonely and alone.  I live for my 5 grandkids, 4 of which I can't see much because they are far away and I am unemployed with little funds.  I am too sick emotionally to go to work now. So the days go by. It's hot outside.  Oreo you wouldn't like the heat, but as usual I would make sure you were cool and you had a haircut so you felt better.  I miss you in every part of the house.  I still fill your water dish with fresh water.  I didn't like this house before you left me and now I hate it.  I wish you were still here, so I could hug you and grab your face and kiss your forehead. So many memories.  I love you with all my heart. I can't and will never stop saying that. Love Mom.
Northernlitez

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OreosMom-I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I really feel your pain. I know how lost and alone I feel at times, even in a room full of people. I only hope it helps you to know you are amongst friends here. People who really understand your emotions and really care about how you feel. If you put your posts under the grief support forum, people are going to see it sooner and reply sooner. Just a suggestion. The pain of losing a family member who was always there for you and with you is unbearable at times. I only know from  my own experience, it has helped me to come here where people know just how I feel. I am hoping it also helps you. If you have a picture of your beloved Oreo, I would love to see it. I am sending prayers and healing wishes to you and hoping you post again. 
OreosMom4_Ever

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Hi, thank you so much for writing back.  I have placed a picture of Oreo in the tribute area. I also use the chat area regularly.  I need all the help I can get.

Hugs.
LeeLeesMama

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Lynn,
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Oreo - what an angel, your photos are just beautiful.  I wish that I had the proper words to say...I know how you miss your sweet baby and how very alone and lonely it feels being without your little heart. It is so difficult trying to adjust to being apart from our babies...trying to find purpose and meaning in life again...  I'm so glad that you found Pet Loss - what an amazing community of people.  I don't use the chat room except for the Candle Ceremony when I can - I just feel more comfortable writing I guess, so I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you tonight and to give you a big hug of understanding... 

I wish you peace and comfort..
Melanie
~always...Lee Lee's Mama~
Northernlitez

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Oreo is just beautiful! I hope you are finding some comfort. I can see the love you and Oreo have for each other. wishing you peace and healing always
OreosMom4_Ever

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Thank you for your kind words.  People on here are wonderful and understanding.

Hugs right back at you.  I am so glad I found this site.

XX00
HammysMom

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Hi, Oreo'sMom,

Please don't feel alone. . I feel exactly like you..that's your baby/child/son/daughter/companion!! I lost a part of me.. I'm so confused still. Like why.. I still hear his little feet.. but we need to stay stronger & as a group. . Thank goodness for me finding u guy's! We can work through this.. RIGHT ?!! :-)
morningglory

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Hi, I am new here and cannot seem to find the way to chat and have looked and looked on here..i also cannot post anything and am surprised this is working....I had to put my beloved Morning Glory to sleep on Monday 12/15....I am just sick...I pace the cold, quiet, empty house looking for her and I can feel my soul calling out to her almost constantly......I am all alone....46 and disabled...no friends really...no boyfriend....only her...she got me through my beginning stages of my illness, the year half of hell trying to lived off little retirement I had until awarded disability.....she literally kept me alive many a time....I cannot sleep without her, I have nothing to get up for in morning now, no one to talk to, be with, watch tv with...it is just the same day now over and over meaningless without her....I feel like I have had my heart ripped out....I was a hospice nurse an know all the grief stages, etc but it does not matter as my heart and soul do not care....they just want her back....I have had too much pain, losses, disappointments in my life and was struggling before she left.....I am so glad to read that I am not alone in my dark, cold, lifeless world now...what do I do?  Where do I go now without her??
gerbilnut

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I'm soo very sorry you had to put your beloved Morning Glory down, hugs to you I have lost a beloved cat in 1998(Pickles, he was almost 15 and had Cancer and had to be put down) and it was the toughest time I've been through and have lost many pets since, just recently my sweet Shelby in an accident.  I'm also on disability and depressed and it seems I have not much to stick around for as well.  Don't feel alone, this group is helping me and just take it day by day.  Do you have a stuffed animal to cuddle? it won't replace a breathing animal but it helps me.  Is there some help in your community like a grief group or somewhere you can talk to someone on the phone who may understand?  Reach out and do whatever you need to feel better. 

take care,

Tammy
Andredean

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i feel your loss, i am very much lost and alone like you right now

lets just go through  this journey of grieving and hopefully we find happiness again,

and always remember we will love our lost one's forever


grievingmom

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i am so sorry for you and wonder how you are. god bless you.
BunnyMama

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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 9.5 year old rabbit almost 2 years ago and it still pains me every time I think about him. If you need to talk I’m all ears❤️
morningglory

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I was so surprised to get a message regarding my post after all these years. Thank you for thinking of me and taking the time to write me. I had a person reach out to me and help me get thru that dark time and I started volunteering at the local animal shelter too and ended up adopting a kitty named Fortune Cookie who has been much comfort to me and got me to a much better place. My life is so much better and much changed from that dark time.💝
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