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griefstricken

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Dear Bella
Mommy can't believe that tomorrow July 28th will be three years since you went to be with God. My heart is very heavy right now. Not a day ever goes by that I don't think of you. I love and miss u so much. You are and always will be in a special warm place in my heart. Words can't really express the pain in the heart when we lose someone that we love so much. It is a pain like no other and even though 3 years have gone by that pain still does exist. It never completely goes away. We just learn to live with it each new day. Benji is doing good. I always talk to him about you. He knows you helped God send him to us. I love you endlessly my sweet beautiful little girl. Sending you tons of hugs and kisses. Love forever Mommy.
EliseT

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Dearest Donna, 

I was thinking of you and Sweet Bella today...I know how hard it is to go through these anniversaries and how time continues to pass us by. The missing never stops until we are finally together again and of course, the love we share will always continue to grow! I know that Bella is having a wonderful day with all of her loving friends as she celebrates three years of heaven and God's perfect love...

I am glad to hear that Benji is doing well...I know he feels a wonderful connection to Bella as they are brother and sister, just as my Buds and Shi are brother and sister. We are truly blessed that our beloved babies sent us these special ones to care for...(and the other way around). 

Sending warmest hugs to you and prayers for peace and comfort,

Elise, mom to Shiloh and Angel Buddy
mssavion

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Dear Donna,

I only come here once a year now...just to observe my precious Nike's memorial.   I picked your post to reply to as you mentioned the pain of the loss even after three years.  How I can identify with that, as ten years ago, we had to say good bye to our beautiful little golden girl.  yes, even after all this time, its possible to shed tears.   The pain is different, not as gut wrenching as time goes by, but pain nevertheless.   Hopefully your memories with Bella with comfort and sustain you in the years ahead....
ourbrandy

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Dear Donna:

I know the pain you feel after 3 years without Bella.  That hole in your heart is like mine - I don't think it will ever be the same.  I'm glad that you have Benji and that he is doing well.  He was definitely sent to you by Bella to ease your pain.  That's the way we feel about our Miriam.  I don't know what we would have done without her.

Sending hugs and prayers to you, angel Bella and Benji,

Barb (Angel Brandy's and now Miriam's mom)
~forever~
griefstricken

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Elise,Barb and mssavion
I thank u all so very much for stopping by with your support for me and my little girl. I don't come on here as much as I used to but it seems like when I do, I don't get the support that I used to get. anyway Blessings to you three for your continued support. I truly appreciate it.

Donna
brenrae

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Donna, you are right in saying that we never really get over losing a loved one. For me, even after a little over five years the pain is still there. Not as strong, but, still, just a dull ache. It is because our heart knows that a loved one is missing. But, we are the ones that was lucky enough to have them in our lives, even if the time was way too short. We were blessed with their presence. I am sorry that I missed her anniversary for her bridge day. Like you, I am not on here as much. I usually come on Thursday's to write to my sweet boy, Harry. And, I read what people post on their topics, but I don't always reply. Sometimes, I really don't know what to say. But, you, and my other friends are always in my thoughts and prayers, as we go through our lives, and hopefully we can make a difference in another's life. I believe that is what our angel babies would want, is for us to share the love they gave us with others. Isn't it so nice our they send us what we need, Bella sends you Benji, which I am sure she knew would be a right fit for you, and help ease your pain, not completely, but, hopefully, Benji brings some sun into your world.
LeeLeesMama

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Dear Donna,
I'm sorry to have missed your little Bella's Anniversary, I don't come here much anymore either...usually just on the 8th... it doesn't 'feel' the same here as it used to for me.... I practically lived on this site for a while and we all wrote almost daily for a time - and I suppose that many have drifted away.

I hope that you are doing okay... I know that the anniversary of your sweet Bella's passing was an especially hard day for you..... For me it just brings all memories, the horror flooding back - I have relived that day and the two weeks preceding too many times.  I thought that maybe one day it would get easier.... but as you know... for some of us, it never does.

I'm glad that you have Benji to keep you company as you go on thru this life.  I hope that your darling Bella will come to visit your dreams and let you feel, once again, the joy of her sweet presence.

Sending warm hugs, Kisses to Benji and Angel Bella,
Melanie
~Lee Lee's Mama~
Mondo

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Hi Donna,

  The time goes by but the love remains.  We shared many posts those 3 years ago.  I don't believe that time heals, but it does help the pain to fade.

  Although there are times for many of us, that it is yesterday once more and it all comes flooding back and the tears and pain return ..

  For me Tuffy and Toby are a part of me, and strangely still present.  I still have their dog tags on my key chain, and when I walk Ellie and Missy in the area where their ashes are spread, I will take their tags out and spend a minute 'remembering'.  The times we walked there, the beautiful mornings with the birds singing and the sun shining.  Tromping through a couple of feet of snow, no point turning back .. so I would blaze a trail and the little boys would follow.  So many happy memories, in time these have mainly replaced the sad ones.  But I still regard the day Tuffy died as the worst day of my life.  This includes the days my Dad and Mom died.  It took me a a number of months to accept and realize this.  

 Sorry, making this about me.  But I hope that you have happy memories of Bella and know that she lives on in your heart.  She changed your life when she came into it .. and while physically not with you she is still part of your life.  I know that The Boys made me a better person and that The Girls have benefited a lot from the lessons Tuffy and Toby taught me.

Hugs,
Tuffy, Toby, Ellie and Missy's Dad
xo

 

LeeLeesMama

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Dear Donna,
I wanted to stop by and say "Hi" and that I'm thinking about you tonight..... I saw a video a couple of days ago of a beautiful little ferret with a harness on walking on a leash... it was the sweetest thing... I immediately thought of your precious Bella.... I know you will always miss your angel....

I hope you, your family and little Benji are doing well...
Hugs,
Melanie
~Lee Lee's Mama~
NancyMarie

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Dear Donna,

I'm so very sorry I missed Bella's 3rd anniversary.  I don't get here as often as I like anymore but think of everyone and their furbabies fondly.

I can't believe it's 3 years already,  I remember when you first joined Petloss, the years go by too quickly.

I hope you, Benji and your family are doing OK and please know whenever I see a ferret I always think of your precious Bella. 

Remember the love never ends.....

Wishing you always,  peace, love, health and happiness.

Hugs to you my friend and Angel Kisses to Bella.

Nancy, Angel Smudgie's Mom and Mom to Calie, Sparky and Jade
LeeLeesMama

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Dear Donna,
I'm hoping that you are able to see this - I wasn't sure where I could write to you.. but, I wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas.  I hope that you, little Benji and your family are having a nice Holiday season.  Most of all, I wish for you a very special visit from your precious little Bella... I know you miss her so much.
Hugs,
Melanie
~Lee Lee's Mama~
NancyMarie

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Dearest Donna,

Just wanted to say hi and even though it's a bit late ( I haven't been on in a while) I wanted to wish you a very happy 2018.

I hope you and yours are doing well and I hope your precious Bella is sending you her special signs.

Hugs to you and Benji and Angel Kisses to your beloved Bella.

Nancy,  Angel Smudgie's Mom and Mom to Calie, Sparky and Jade
LeeLeesMama

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Dear Donna,
I was thinking of you and your angel Bella and wondered how you are doing these days. I know that you will always miss your sweet girl and I hope that all is well with you and your sweet Benji boy.  

Hugs,
Melanie
~Lee Lee's Mama~
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