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Lynnsa

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Tomorrow since I lost Max and Iā€™m still devastated as I miss him so much. I blame myself for not noticing he was ill until the last day - he just went so quickly Iā€™m still shocked. I hope so much it gets easier one day as my life is not the same without him. I love you so much Max šŸ’”šŸ’”šŸ’”
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Lynnsa,
It's so very hard to live a normal life after letting our fur kids go. Our new normal is a very hard adjustment and we grieve the emptiness that reminds us that they aren't physically here with us any more. I know in my heart that they are always near us, their spirit never leaves us and they stay near to help guide us and surround us with their love. I wish I could tell you it does get easier with time. I hope it will, eventually. Our fur kids hide their pain and illnesses so well. Please don't blame your self, Max stayed strong for you until there was no more strength left. He did this for the love of you. It's been ten months with out my sweet Termy and I am coping. There will be waves of grief and sadness and one day the good memories will out weigh the saddest ones. I don't know if it's better that they go quickly or slowly. I watched Termy go down hill for months ( always hoping for a turn around) and the last few weeks I watched the boy I loved just survive with no quality of life, It was so sad watching him and finally when he quit eating I knew I had to let him go. No matter the way we lose them he breaks our hearts. Max knows how very much you love him.
Peace and comfort to your broken heart
Love and doggie hugs
Termy's mom
Lynnsa

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Thank you so much cosesmum for your kind words and I'm so sorry for your loss of termy - I can laugh sometimes as he was such a terror but he's left a huge gap in my life - people say after a year and I will feel better - time will tell. Some of my friends think I am ,over it but I know I never will be. I think it's true what you say as I often feel his presence and I talk to him all the time - I just miss him so much šŸ˜°
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