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lmarques

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I've been trying so move on and the busy days are keeping me sane. I thank god for little Ava and Luke who have helped me these last few days with their hugs and kisses. It just isn't the same without my little fireball running around. If she hadn't been so rambunctious, so noticeable, such a spirit, the silences wouldn't be so terrible.

I can't tell you how much coming to this post several times a day has helped me with my grief. Speaking to all of you and helping with your posts as well has allowed me to feel a peace slowly coming in. We're all bonded together by tragedy, but with that tragedy comes hope. Each person I speak to helps me add another furbaby to the growing list of friends Brucey is making up there. With each of your stories and pictures, I can imagine your little ones with mine, playing together and enjoying the constant sunshine. Most of all, you've helped me understand that we have no control over when they leave us and that as happy as they were with us on earth, they're even happier on the rainbow bridge.

I pick up B's ashes next Monday and I'm dreading the fresh pain I know will come. I really don't want to go back to the vet so soon and see all the people who saw her last moments. But I truly can't wait to put her little ashes next to this great black and white framed picture we already had of her. It's just of her face, a profile shot, and she looks so adorable.

Thank you again. I keep praying for all your babies up there too!

-Liza
Brucey Lucy's forever Mommy
Margaret

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It is hard the first few days but it does get a little easier.It is three weeks today since I lost my darling Becky and it has got a little easier. I had a good cry yesterday and felt so lost without her but it doesn't last for long and I picked myself up and carried on. I am sure she is with me helping me and your dear  Brucey will do the same for you, I 'm sure.It is a bereavement and we have to have that period of mourning which time does help.It is because the love was so great that the loss is so hard to bear.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love and (((hugs))),
Margaret

 


basil

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Dear Lisa

I know how hard it is to have to get on with life, so many people do not understand how difficult it is.  Here is so different.  As you say, we all have a common bond, the love of a baby.  I would never feel bad speaking my feelings here, there is always somebody who has felt the same.
Thinking of you, may you soon find peace.  I have lost so many, and I still miss them so much, Love Di, xxx

http://petsupports.com/a01/sorcha.htm

I would love you to look at my guys on the link, I am sure they will have made friends with your Brucey.
EmptyNow

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Dear Liza,

It's so hard losing our babies.  We grow to love them and are so used to them being around us all the time.  It's like an empty hole in our hearts.

I will pray for you so that you have the strength to pick up Brucey Lucy's ashes.  It's hard at first but I have felt a sense of "calm" having my baby's ashes with me.  I hope you will feel that too.

Big Hug Your Way,

Piggy's Mom
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