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Hi Har Har,

Well it is 6 years now that you have been at the bridge. I hope you have fun with your friends, Buddy, LeeLee, Bedo, Rosie and all the rest. All the fun and games, all the food that you like. When I join you, you will have to introduce me to them all. Yesterday we went swimming, and there was a heart shaped cloud in the sky. Was it from you? I love you my sweet boy, and I always will. You live forever in my heart. Until we meet again, here is some hugs, cuddles and kisses. Love mommy


Butterflies from Heaven

Butterflies from Heaven sent from above,
Butterflies from Heaven sent from those we love.

Butterflies from Heaven have a message for you.
Butterflies from Heaven say please don't be blue.

Butterflies from Heaven will give you a kiss
Butterflies from Heaven are a sign not to miss.

Butterflies from Heaven are messengers fair
Butterflies from Heaven let you know they're still here.

Butterflies from Heaven on gossamer wings
Butterflies from Heaven Will make your heart sing.

Butterflies from Heaven give you hope in the night
Butterflies from Heaven whisper it will be alright.

Butterflies from Heaven, from the garden on high.
Butterflies from Heaven, you are always by my side.

Missing You

I miss you every day,
I wish you never went away.

No longer beside me,
As I lay in bed at night.

No more togetherness ,
For you are out of sight.

I feel the loneliness,
For you are not here.

I cry the tears,
As my soul screams from within.

I miss you so deeply,
I miss you my friend.


I never wanted to say good bye,
but, I had to let you go.

I knew the sadness would be great, 
but, I had to let you go.

I loved you then, I love you still,
but I had to let you go.

As the tears filled my eyes, I stood there and cried,
As I let you go.

Though it broke my heart in a million pieces,
I had to let you go.

You crossed the bridge, and earned your wings,
As I let you go.


Letter from Heaven

Hi Mom and Jean,

I see you as I sit at Rainbow Bridge. 
I feel your pain as you think of me
But, I feel your joy as you remember the love we shared.

I still watch you from where I am.
When the stars shine brightly from above, 
Remember that those stars reflect the brightness of my love.

I try in many ways to let you know that I am still around.
I send a cardinal or a robin with its sweet song.
Sometimes I will send a butterfly to flit around you.

I am always near, and watching over you.
You are my family on earth
Sometimes, I will walk on your bed, or brush against you.

Can you not feel me there?
I think of you often, as I sit here above.
I am happy to see you share your love with others.

I sent them to you, 
for I knew you was what they would need
When you love them, you are loving me.

Continue to honor me in this way
And soon you will see,
A little part of me, is inside each of them.



This is a poem me and my daughter wrote for Harry's 3rd year.

Life's Path

Walking down life's rocky road
You meet a few beautiful souls.

These souls enrich your life somehow
Without meaning to, by just being there.

They make life's storms easier to bear
With their boundless love and endless spirit.

You walk together, heart and soul entwined
Knowing that you will always be connected.

Even if two different paths you must take
Your spirits will always be together.

One day your paths will meet again
And your heart will burst with joy.

Never more will you have to walk alone
Two hearts and souls together forever.

You will rest your weary heads together
Take a nap in the warmth of shared love.

You no longer need to fear being apart
For your two paths have led you both home.


This is Christmas 2010 with Harry's gift bag. We enjoyed watching him 
and how excited he was when he found a toy.


This is Christmas 2011, our last Christmas with him. He wasn't as 
interested in his bag as usual, he wanted the boxes.


video of Harry

This is the poem I wrote for his 1 year bridge day

It has been a year since I had to let you go.
I was not ready to say good bye to my special boy, 
But, I knew I had to do what was best for you and not me.

Though I do not see you, I know you are still near.
Watching and loving me, as I go through the years.
I keep you safe in my heart, and there you will always be
My special little boy, full of love for me.

My heart is filled with sadness without you here.
But, I would gladly go through it all again, even the tears.
My memories of you I treasure, and smile because of them
One day we will be together, and we can do it all again.

I love you my special boy, and no one can take your place
You know how much I miss you, and the smile on your face.
I miss your purr, and the way you would walk beside me.
You know that I would do anything if only you I could see.

I know that you stay close, for I see a shadow now and then.
I know you want me to be happy, and I try to form a grin.
To me you will always be the best, so special, and full of love.
I will see you again, when I go to your home above.

This is a poem I wrote for Harry.


Through the mirror of my mind
I see your reflection standing next to mine.

On the soft spring breezes that come my way
I smell your scent, have you come back to stay?

As I lay down in my bed to sleep
I feel your body, I feel your heat.

As the summer sun beats down on me
I see two shadows, as it should always be.

As I go through each passing day
I feel your presence guiding my way.

As the fall leaves come tumbling down,
I hear the rustling of two sets of feet on the ground.

As I continue my journey through Life
I keep your memories always alive.

As the winter snow covers the ground
I feel the warmth of your love all around.

Harry 2 year video


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Well, Harry, the day is done now, so starts another year without you, but, you will live forever in my heart. I love you my sweet boy, always and forever. Until we meet again, watch over us all, and I will always watch for your star in the night sky. Here is some hugs, cuddles and kisses. Love, Mommy

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Dear Brenda,
I’m sorry I missed your sweet Harry’s Anniversary Day... I know it was very hard day for you to get through. Harry must be so proud to let everyone at the Bridge know how must he is loved. These poems are sooooo beautiful... you have quite a gift Brenda. The butterfly poem is my favorite.

Happy Six Years Angel Harry! You are so very loved and missed. Send your Mom a special sign to let her know you read all these beautiful poems.

Hugs and prayers,

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Thank you, Melanie

My daughter and I worked on the Butterfly poem together. My favorite of the poems is the Mirror one. Perhaps it is because it is the first one I did for my boy. The one sign that Harry seems to send me a lot seems to be dimes. I find them in some strange places. I guess instead of Pennies from heave, he sends me dimes. Or feathers. I have not had any dream visits from him in a long time, and I would really love to have one from him. But, every so often, I feel a brush against my ankle, and none of the other cats are near, so I always feel it is from him. 


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Sorry I miss your six year anniversary, have a happy belated one, hope you had a great time with all of our angels from above.  Mom's loving poems to you speak out each of our thought.  Please stay close by mom, she misses you so, we feel every letter she writes to you and you are considered a very very lucky boy, no matter where you are, heaven or earth, you are always in mommy's heart!
Sending you lots of angel kisses and hugs,

Hope Sweet Harry will come to your dream so you can give him a biggest hug! sorry I missed his anniversary, your poems to him are so sweet and touching, I love reading them and reading all the letters you wrote to Sweet Harry!



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Nance, thank you for your post. It seems like the years just keep passing on by, doesn't it. There are times when it feels like it has been forever since I last held my boy, and I am sure you feel the same. But, then it seems like it was just yesterday. I still look at his pictures every night, and I tell him that I will see him soon. I know he is still near me, for every so often I feel a rub against my leg, and there is nothing there. I also feel like a cat jumps on the bed, but, still nothing. I feel it is Harry letting me know he is still with me. Do you ever feel that Bedo is still with you? Giving you signs? Sorry I took so long to respond.


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Hi Brenda:

Sorry I missed Harry's 6 year anniversary.  As I said to Nance, I don't stop by here very often but for some reason I was drawn here today.  I guess it's because Brandy's 5 year anniversary is coming up next week.

Even as the years go by the missing and longing for our angels never ends, does it?  I always enjoy reading your letters to Harry because they express the great love you have for him.  He will always live in your heart and watch over you.

Happy 6 years at the bridge Angel Harry!  I know it was a glorious celebration with all your friends gathered around.  I know you felt your mom's kisses on the wind.

Sending hugs,
Barb (Angel Brandy's and Miriam's mom)

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Hi Harry, I haven’t stopped by in so long. But I think of you and your mom-she’s always had such kind and comforting words about my Rosie. The two of you crossed over Rainbow Bridge so close to each other. Thank you for helping Rosie’s journey less lonely.

You’re a precious sweet boy who is forever loved and missed.

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Dear Brenda,

Thank you for your sweet words on Bedo's anniversary.  Sometimes when I think of us and how attached we are to our loved babies and it just amazes me at the same time that this world is still very beautiful (we all know how  the world actually is nowadays)

I am very blessed whenever I feel a sign from Bedo and I wish I could have as many many as possible.  I never consider the signs are "haunted", I  just feel "blessed" when receiving signs from him.  My boy is quite sneaky, he always reminds me of him, the other day I almost forgot his anniversary, and he just has his own way to remind me, by putting his favourite fruits on his remembering place, or urge me  to go to fb to have my posts on his anniversary pops up, etc.  My orchid was bloomed on his anniversary, and it just bloomed again on his 57th anniversary after 7 years.

I miss my boy so much, just like you miss your Harry, we are a bit crazy as others call it, but  that's what we are and I always feel the forum is where I could be the real me.

Hugs to you and hugs to Sweet Harry!


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Barb, thank you for your kind words. You are right, the missing and longing for them never ends, but, neither does the love. And one day, we will look up, and we will see them coming to greet us as we make our journey to our forever home up above. It is a day to look forward to, and the day will come when the time is right, but for now, we continue to love those that come our way. For isn't that what our babies would want?

kjgonz, I think that Harry and Rosie became great friends, as they both went so close together. Harry did love the ladies, and your Rosie was and is a beautiful lady. I don't come as often as I used to, but, I always come and do my letters to Harry, for I feel he can see them, and he knows what is in my heart. The same as Rosie knows what is in your heart.

Nance, if we are crazy, then I would rather be called crazy. For the love we have for our furbabies, and they have for us is a precious thing, and I would not want to miss out on the love we shared with them. Like I always say, no amount of time would ever have been enough. But, I am blessed that I did have the time that I did have, as I am sure you feel the same. Our babies, though no longer in physical form, live with us every day, for they live forever in our hearts.  
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