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Tanker_1

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She was alive.

I did not know that it was going to be our last night and that I was going to make the choice to put her to sleep in the morning. I know that she was 15.5 and that I had been preparing for her leaving for almost two years and really preparing since summer, but I did not know that I was only going to have a half hour to tell her goodbye after I made the decision to let her go.

Life isn't any better or worse since the days have passed. I miss her. 
Tanker_1

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If it wasn't for my pictures and my memories, you could never tell I loved a dog just a short while ago. :(
jessej1s89

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Hello my friend, I have just read your post, and I wanted to drop by and send you some love. I too am sharing your pain. I had to send my dog Braveheart to Heaven this past Saturday, March 3rd. I have been grieving pretty hard, and it has been an emotional rollercoaster; but, I went on a long 1 hour drive earlier and it really helped me to get out there and just drive. While I was driving, I realized something important; Braveheart is not gone. He has just changed addresses, and he is rejoicing up there in Heaven. He has a new body now, and he can see again! (he had gone blind here on Earth). He is rejoicing in his new perfect body, and he is rejoicing with your doggy, and with God. 

Your sweet girl is looking down on you from Heaven, and she is sending you her love. She doesn't want you to feel so sad. She wants you to be happy for her, and she will be waiting for you there. You WILL see your baby again, and that will be such a wonderful day! Just know that you are not feeling these feelings alone, my friend. I am feeling them with you, and so are many others here. Just know that you are not alone. And know that you will see her again. She is rejoicing! <3 If you ever need anyone to talk to, you can find me here. 

Much love, 
-Jess; Braveheart's momma

Gringoem13

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So very sorry for your loss.  I am going on day 26 and it feels just as bad as day 1.  Maybe even worse.  One tiny thing that is helping me is I would rather have it be ME feeling this way than my baby...  Maybe you will find a small amount of comfort in that as well.
Always__there

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Hello Tanker,
Memories are all we have in Life.... Your beloved was 15.5y, amazing !! My wee chihuahua was 16y. We will always long and miss their presence. I view my wee one's entire span as a whole and not just the final snap. May that  comfort you as well. Living on* Our Hearts...........               Sherry/Perryx
Al_B

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My Bear passed on Monday. And we didn't know on Sunday that we would be saying goodbye to him. But we knew it was his time. He was 14 1/2. They know when they want to go to the bridge. When my Sam died 15yrs ago, someone told me to write a letter to him. Tell him how you feel, write about the good times and everything you did together. I am doing the same for Bear. I'm on page 5 already. This may help you. If you're like me, you will cry and laugh. Because you know they made us laugh a lot. Maybe remembering the good times will help you. Hope this helps you through this difficult time. Al
Always__there

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Al B..
Such ''handsome'' photos of Bear !!!  The look of, see all--know all. The look of total devotion shines through, loyalty abounds, and wearing his ''star''. He was and still is the Star of Your Life. Bear lives on* your Heart. Thankyou for sharing.                      Sherry/Perryx
Gringoem13

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Not sure if you are still checking this site but I had to comment since I am now on day 90 and I remembered your post.  I hope that you are finding some comfort/happiness since your beloved's passing.  I wish I could say I am, but unfortunately that isn't true.  Maybe more time.  But like you said- I miss her....  Peace and blessings to you.
Tanker_1

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@Gringoem13

I wasn't going to post this month but was going to post next month which will be the six-month mark. 

Things are still the same.  I spend time with her pictures many nights a week. So much of loss is a habit. I still think I have been gone too long from the house and then I remember that she is gone and I do not have to rush back.

Thank you for caring about me.
georgesmom

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I lost my 13 y.o. kitty, George, 23 days ago.  Seems like time stands still and we can't wipe away the memory of that last day. 

Tanker, I do the same, thinking I have to get home then realizing he's not there anymore and it hurts. 

There is no time line when you will start to feel better - you won't forget, but the pain is less.  Hugs to all on this post. 


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