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TaniaD

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My cat Gregy passed away a week ago. . . last sunday I was holding him while he was dying. . . but he had life. . . I could feel him breathing, I could see his eyes look into mine. . . I thought that the vet had fixed him and I didnt know that I would never see him look at me like that again with love in his eyes. How I wished I had held him all night but I thought he'd be okay. . . I wish he would send me a sign that hes okay. . . that his soul still exist. . . I need hope that he hasnt left me. . . I need to know if hes not lost. . . I want him to know I will always love him. . .

Darian

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I'm so sorry that Gregy passed.  Of course you thought to let him have his rest for the night and you would see him in the morning.  He loved you and that little cuddle you enjoyed was very comforting to him.  Animals actually have an instinct to be alone when they pass, so don't worry, he was happy having one last squeeze and then leaving on his own.  He's not lost. He's found his forever home in heaven.

Mare

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Dear Tania,

I am sorry your dear Gregy has passed on.  It is sad when they leave on their own, but that is what animals often do.  You were blessed to have spent quiet time with him and be able to show him how much you loved him. He is enjoying his new home and will wait ever so patiently for you to join him. 

Mare
precious Christoph ~ 2 years at the bridge ~

cwigg99723

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I am so sorry to hear about your cat Gregy.  It is one of the hardest things in life to loose a sweet precious pet.  I know from experience.
 
Please know that Gregy is at the Rainbow Bridge.  He will send you a message in time.  It took nearly 3 months for me to get a message from my Beagle, Bonnie Lou and what a comfort that was.  I dreamed that she was a young pup, healthy and full of life.  And the amazing thing is that she had a "heavenly glow" about her.  So, i know she is in heaven.
 
You have come to the right place to find comfort and understanding.  The people here are wonderful.  Please rest at peace that your precious pet is fine.
 
Gregy is playing at the Bridge with Bonnie.  And don't worry that Bonnie is a dog.  She grew up with cats and I think she thought she was a cat.
 
~~~~~hugs~~~~~
Clara 
TaniaD

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Thank you all so much for the support. . . I just miss my Gregy so much. . . today I had some left over chicken and I always gave gregy the option of having some and when I walked to the kitchen I automatically bent down to put the chicken in his bowl and when i saw his bowl wasnt there. . . it hit me again that he wasnt here anymore. . .
Darian

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Tania that will happen, more than a few times over the next little bit.  Sometimes I catch myself saving a bit of my hamburger or unwrapping my cheese slowly (so that he wouldn't fling himself onto my legs and startle me).   But gradually, i will sink in.  It's a long road, but we can make it together.

LoriDR

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Tania ~ I'm so sorry about the loss of your sweet Gregy. I know what you are feeling. When my boy first died, I too, wondered if he still existed somewhere and if he did, if he was okay. It took me several weeks before I grew to know he was still around, and that he was doing better than okay ... he was doing 100 times better than he was here before he left for the bridge. Give yourself time and keep coming here to talk when you need to. Take care of yourself as you grieve, and give yourself the compassion you need. Hugs of comfort, Lori
TaniaD

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I desperately want a sign from him. . . my mom said she saw him in the corner of her eye the other day and i just cant help but to feel hurt. . . Gregy was my cat and I was his. My mum had only known him for 3 moths when I had known him for more than half my life. . . How come she can see him and i cant? :-(

Murphy22

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Tania, I know it doesn't seem fair that mom only knew him 3 months and has caught a glimpse of him.  But you know what.... I truly believe when our hearts hurt so badly, and we are deep in mourning, our minds cannot see or hear the signs from our little ones.

It was over 3 months when my mind started to calm, to accept, that my sign appeared.  I heard my little girl growl next to me in bed.  It was her "I want your immediate attention" growl.  One I know so well. 

It was 6 months after my mother passed that I had a visit from her.  She told me in that visit that she had not been able to come through because I was so deep in mourning.  So I believe this.  Honey, it will happen, and the signs will come when you least expect it.  So take care and know your baby is with you and will be always.
Sandie
Murphy's Mommy

TaniaD

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Thank you Murphy for your support. I try and talk to him when I can. . . I still leave my bedroom door open every night for him

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