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I am on a quick lunch break at work so I only have a moment right now. But I just read what happened to you and wanted to send you condolences from the bottom of my heart.

I hope you will take at least some small comfort from what I am about to say. I know this is a devastating thing to have happened. The only thing that could possibly be worse is if these sub-human criminals had managed to take Onyx away from you while your baby was still alive.

You and Onyx had each other.

Nothing, and no one, can EVER take that away from you. Not even now.

I will pray for the safe return of Onyx's ashes. Try to hang in there, and I hope you can take some strength and comfort from all of your friends and supporters here on the boards.

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Oh my Lord.  I'm at a complete loss for words.  I am so sorry, my goodness I wish there was something I could do for you.  I can't even imagine.  What is wrong with people!!!???!!! 

Oh Pami, you're in my prayers.  Please hang in there and remember your baby is at peace and she is with you always - if that helps at all.  HUGE hugs!!!!


Posts: 445
I'm so sorry Pami, what an awful shock for you.  Being robbed is a shock in itself but to lose the ashes and fur that is the worst.  Most likely your robbers were drug addicts that was my experience anyway when I was robbed twice. The first time I was sleeping and they/he only took a few things and then they did just grab everything when they came back.

The year after I graduated high school our house burned down and the worst thing thing was not that I didn't have any clothes but the pictures and all my childhood things and my dog's collar who had died when I was 12.  To this day I remember the little purse I had his collar in.  You are so right "things" can be replaced but not the ashes or the locket with fur from a precious fur baby.  Hold on to your memories because no one can take those away.


Posts: 48
I can not believe what I've just read. How could anyone be so heartless.
But let me tell you something and I'm sure you've known of this....Karma is a b....!
It really is sweety. Those people will dearly pay for it. Believe me. This will not go unnoticed.

Please, hang in there. And know that your angels spirit is around you and that what really counts. Although I do understand why you are so devastated. I am so sorry.

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Dearest Pami,  I am at loss for words.  I can hardly believe anyone would even take ashes.  I am so sorry for your loss.

You know that Onyx was not there and she is at the bridge and I hope someday that will bring you comfort.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this trying and painful time.

Bless you and the spirit of all of your lost babies.

Love,  Diane

Posts: 139

I am really at a loss here. This is just stunning and my heart goes out to you. Please realize what you know in your heart. They didn't take HER, Onyx is still with you. They took her ashes, but it is impossible for them to take her from you. She is with you always.

Still, I do understand. I'm so sorry.


Posts: 5,100
Dearest Pami,  Just checking in to see how you are tonight.  I just want you to know I am praying for you.  May you have the strength to get through this agonizing time, my friend.  We are here for you.
Betsy's forever mom

Posts: 251
I read your post and my fists are clenched and my hear is beating furiously!!There truly is some evil people in this world. That is just so horrendous and despicable. What a nightmare! I am so sorry. I don't know how to comfort you. I know that you must be absolutely devastated, that was ll you had left of your baby. Please know that Onyx is looking down on you and wants to give you a cuddle, to tell you that you are so loved.

Please take care. Sending you a big cuddle.

Nuggetsmum Alana

Posts: 540
Dear Pami, I am shocked, and angered and just downright p!$$ed off. I can't believe how horrible people can be.. to think that they not only broke in and robbed your house but to take your furbaby's ashes off of the mantle, is just totally unbelievable. What monster could do something like that. They had to have known what it was, especially if there were flowers and sympathy cards surrounding it.  I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain but I know there is nothing.  I do agree that you should contact your local tv news and get this out to the public and ask that the thief return your kitty's ashes and the locket with the hair in it. No questions asked.  There really are some truely evil people in this world but that thief will get his at some point. No worries there, some way some how he will have to answer for his unforgiveable actions.  Please know we are all here for you and keep us posted.   Your sweet kitty will always be with you in your heart, his soul was not in that box, he is inside you and no one can ever steal that away from you.

Hugs and prayers,



Posts: 1,001
Oh My gentle Friend,
I tried to email you but not sure if it went through to you. I have been away at my daughters house and will be gone until the end of next week. How I wish I could make this pain go away and hug you and find a way to ease the sadness you are feeling.  No words I say can change what happened or make your heart not hurt but truly Onyx and Cloudy will never be gone from you. You were and are the Love of their life and in their passing your Love went with them and they watch over you and will help wipe your tears from your eyes. I know we want to have something of them to hold on to and we cherish everything we have left . Their memories can NEVER be stolen and the Love is forever Pami but you know that already. You have such a kind sensitive soul and spirit and that is who you are and not your body and it is the same for our beloved furchildren. They come to us wrapped up in fur and steal our heart away but it is their spirit that captures us and that essence and aura is all around you protecting you and helping you through. You and I and every one here cannot comprehend this cruelty and thank God that we have love that fills our heart and joys that overflow from being loved and sharing Love and these violently cruel people that did this can never have that part of us ever~~~~ I LOVE YOU Pami  
You are not alone through all of this.
Love you

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Just checking in on you.  Are you okay?

Posts: 172
Dearest Pami:
I am sooooo heartbroken on what happened to you and your husband.
How could someone be so cruel as to steal someone's precious,and beloved,pet's ashes????? Words cannot describe how I am feeling. But my thoughts and prayers are with you right now.
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