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Thatchersmom

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Well Sweet  Baby, here I am again.  I actually succeeded last month in my attempt not to come here and post on your bridgeday.  I thought maybe it would allow my heart to become immune to this pain once and for all.  How silly of me.  So I'm back.  Probably will be every month until we're together again.  I've now tried everything Snugglebear, so forgive me for not being able to forget, for not being able to move on completely, for missing my best friend so much that at times I just don't know where to go or what to do about it.  You were, are and always will be my heart and soul.  From the moment you entered my life I became a better human being.  From the moment I laid eyes on you, I knew we were destined to be together.  Fourteen years of my life were spent loving you.  They were the most complete and fulfilling fourteen of my 48 years.  They were what has left me wanting more.  Every time I look at your picture, I just close my eyes to remember your soft fur, your sigh of contentment, your little stub wagging with happiness, how you used to jump for joy when I came home from work and how you'd lay your head on my lap when day was ending.  The time of my life it was Sweetheart, the time of my life.  I don't wish my life away, but if each of us were given a fast forward button to use just once, for any reason we wanted, I would choose to use mine to get to you- that's how much I miss you my angel.  For now though, I just pray for strength to get through each day without you, knowing it gets me one closer to you.  Happy Bridgeday Doozie Snooze.  I wish for you as many treats as your little belly will hold.  Give Etheridge and Chickie big kisses for me.  With all my heart and all my soul, I love you.  I just love you..........Mommy



Thatcher
1/15/91-4/24/05
Mommy's Little Bridge Angel

       
Georgeann

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Dear Thatcher's Mommy:
I was just getting ready to sign off when I saw your post. Once again I am in tears reading your post and looking at Thatcher's beautiful picture.  I know each time I read your post that my grief for Christopher is not any different than yours.  I know that I am not losing my mind.  Christopher has been gone for over 15 months and I am still in tears every day.  I miss him as much today as the day he left.  It is so hard for people to understand why I am still in such overwhelming pain.  Your post really answers it all.  Obviously those who do not understand have never had that special bond we shared with our babies.  Love lasts forever and so does the pain of their loss.    I too would fast forward my life to be with Christopher if I could. 

I would never wish this pain on anyone, but I cannot tell you how much comfort reading your post is to me.  I know that I will miss Christopher Forever just as you will miss Thatcher.  As I have said before, these Precious Angels steal our Hearts and take our souls with them when they leave.  I will continue to count every day until Christopher is safe in my arms once again and I know that I will not be alone.  What a glorious day that will be when we are with our babies once again.  You and Thatcher are in my Prayers, Always.

HAPPY 38TH BRIDGE DAY PRECIOUS THATCHER.  I HOPE THAT YOU ARE DOING WELL AND TAKING GOOD CARE OF CHRISTOPHER FOR ME.  STAY SAFE FOUR YOUR MOMMY.  MAY GOD'S ANGELS KEEP YOU SAFE AND WATCH OVER YOU FOREVER.

Love and Big Hugs
Georgeann and Christopher
Forever 
Nuggetsmum

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Hi there Thatcher'sMommy,

I am moved by your words. Your love for your boy is so strong. I am crying as I read it. Crying for you, crying for Thatcher, crying for Nugget and I as I feel as though I could have written your words...I know what you mean about wanting to fast forward time to be with our soulmates again.

And when I saw Thatcher's picture, wow.......I can see why you love him so much...what an angel.....

I am sending you a big cuddle, I wish I could say more and do more for you....I know that words often can't help the yearning though for our babies.

Thatcher, please come and visit your mummy...she loves you and misses you more than anything.

Love Nuggetsmum Alana
dianae2002

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Dear Thatcher's mom,
 
I can understand when you said that you cannot forget even if you want. I guess I'll be doing the same as you for as long as I'm alive. Maybe it is because I just cannot stop thinking about my sweet fur-babies, and writing something on their Bridge Days helps me a little with the pain I feel. I'm glad you could enjoy 14 years with your beloved Thatcher... she knows how much you miss her, I hope you can always think of her with a smile.
 
Diana, Jessie and Neko's mom.
kdclairmo

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Thatcher's Mommy, what a beautiful tribute you wrote to your sweet boy. Oh he is just too precious in his picture. His soulful eyes remind me so much of my Peanut's big brown eyes. You could just look deep in them and see such love.  Peanut has been gone a little over a year now and I know I will never truly get over the pain and loss I have felt since she passed on. She was 17 and we had her almost 12 years and like you said, even though it was a long time, it was not nearly long enough.  It feels like the time went by in a blink of an eye and oh how I miss my sweet angel. You were so blessed to have Thatcher and he to have you and he will always be a part of you because he helped to make you who you are, a loving, caring person. Even though we all go thru such pain and heatache from our losses, oh we are so lucky to have had what we shared with our babies, that one of kind companionship..many people go thru their entire lives and never experience that ever and I feel sorry for them.  Yes we are in pain and probably always will be but the pain is so worth it in the long run.  My Peanut was worth every tear I have shed for her and a billion more.

Hugs to you and Happy Bridge Day to Thatcher your beautiful angel.

Karen

bugsdogs

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Terry,
Just yesterday I was wondering about you and Thatcher. I was re-reading some things that you had written to me and realized we hadn't heard from you for some time. I was hoping that you had found that place of peace that we try to find....

"The time of my life it was," those words speak volumes. I know exactly how you feel. They were our everything and we are left so very empty when they are gone. I felt every word you wrote and in my heart they were words that I feel every day for Chancey and Digby. The life and love you had with Thatcher was so beautiful. We are lucky to have been blessed with them, it is just that we never get to have them long enough.

I know I will continue to feel the same as you for the rest of my time here. I have come to accept that, now I just have to find a way to live with the loss and ache I have.

All my best,
Helen


Mary

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Dear Thatcher's Mom:
What a beautiful picture of your sweet Thatcher.  I understand your feelings and I know that Thatcher will always be in your heart.  It is so incredible the love that we share with our pets.  I have felt the same about wanting to fast forward time.  The feeling of emptiness in our hearts and home is so great we wonder how we will ever go on without our best friend and companion but there will come the day that we will be reunited again in happiness

Remembering the many years of love and happiness you spent with Thatcher might help to ease the pain. 

  HAPPY 2 MONTH BRIDGE DAY TO YOU THATCHER.  I   
WILL SEND A PRAY FOR AND YOUR MOM TODAY. 

Mary
Meisters Mom


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