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With everything that went on over this weekend I didn't realize that it was Monday and the candle ceremony was being held online. I put her name on the list - she left us on 5/25/08 but I wasn't there for the candle lighting, is that OK? Can I do it again? Please tell me I can, I feel just horrible about not being there. I was having trouble just getting out of bed on Monday, we put her down on Sunday evening at 10:40PM.
I can't seem to shake the feeling of letting her down or missing a connection with her.
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The candle ceremony is every Monday. I can't get on line so I do my own ceremony at the same time everyone else does. Don't worry about missing one..come join us this coming Monday.
Your connection with your precious furchild is eternal and will always be with you. I'm so sorry for you loss as I know the pain you're feeling. Hugs, Donna
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Of course you can! The candle ceremony is held every Monday night. Don't feel so bad about missing this one, it took me a couple of weeks before I was able to attend the ceremony. I guess I was in denial of losing my Baby Bunz. Now I am there every Monday night. They are very comforting, and so many people that are there together sharing the same feelings of pain and grief. It is quite helpful. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Jacki, Baby Bunz mommy
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mw0263 your baby sees the light of love that glows from your heart. She knows your love for her is always as is hers for you. The candle ceremony is every Monday night at 7pm(pst), 10pm(est). There is also one on every 2nd Sunday of each month. The next one is June 8th. The time for that one is 12pm(pst), 3pm (est). Please don't feel horrible for missing the ceremony mw0263, please give your heart time to heal and know we care and are here for you to lean on. Your baby guided you to Petloss so you will know you are not alone and others understand how you feel. It was 4 years before I could write for my boy and a year before I could stay for the whole ceremony. (((((((((((mw0263)))))))))) ~Jackie(BarTendersBluesWolf)~