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Monkeys_daddy

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Monkey, the sweetest, most loving, most clever kitty ever. I miss you sleeping with me every night and following me around the house. I miss your little girly sounding meow. Always waiting for me on the other side of a closed door, and sticking you little paws under the door. I hope your on the other side of that door that leads from this life. I love you now and always sweet girl. Daddy.
 
I made a tribute site to Monkey. I hope I'm able to post it on here. There's no ads or anything for sale or anything like that. Just a tribute site.
 

http://monkeys-room.com

 

 

 

polkadots

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Monkey's daddy,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby.
The site you made for her is just beautiful.
I can see the love you had for her and no doubt
she was a one-of-a-kind true soul mate.
My heart and support go out to you.
I know how painful it is to lose such a beautiful soul
and not sleep with them every night again.
You will see her again one day.
Hang onto the good memories and talk to her often, until then.
It helps.

Much love,
Pat (Daisy's forever daddy)
Becky57

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I went to your link and it is such an amazing tribute to your beautiful girl.  I only too well understand your comments about her care.  The biggest mistake of my life (and I have made many) was calling the vet and asking if I could increase her glucosamine and apply heat to her arthritic hip.  From that moment on, my life changed forever. I also identify with your comments about boxes being unpacked in your new home.  I sit on my porch everyday and watch the grass and weeds growing.  I just don't care.  Again, I am so sorry for what you have been through, but it is really a wonderful memorial.

Monkeys_daddy

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Thanks for visiting Monkey's site. Thanks for the comments too.
It's been almost a year here and I STILL haven't unpacked.
I used to be real proud of this place, before Monkey passed, it was brand new and spotless. I would get pissed if I smudged a wall. Now there are holes in the walls, and broken doors. It's starting to look like hell.
I used to mow the grass and edge the walks and driveway every week, now I just hire someone to mow it every couple weeks.
Life just isn't the same anymore.
 
http://monkeys-room.com



 
basil

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Your site is a beautiful and moving tribute to your girl.  It is so hard isnt it.  Thinking of you, Di xxx

Georgeann

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Dear Monkey's Daddy:
Your Tribute to Monkey and your website are wonderful.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Of course my eyes are so filled with tears that I can barely type.  I could feel every ounce of your pain and I understand that pain all too well.  I understand your dislike for your new home as I dislike mine too.  Our home is such a beautiful place, but I see Christopher everywhere.  The pain of his loss is just overwhelming.  Each night when I came home from work Christopher would be sitting in the window waiting for my arrival.  He would get so excited when he saw the car pull up.  He would race from the window to the front door and as I would open the door he would dance for me.  Now as I turn down my street the tears begin to fall as I know Christopher will never be in the window again. 

Christopher was my Heart, My Soul and My Best Friend.  When he left he took my soul with him.  Each day I write to Christopher in his journal.  I always end with"Now the day is over and that means I am another day closer to being with you again forever."  I will continue to count the days just as you will.  May God's Angels watch over your Precious Monkey until she is safe in your arms once again.

Sending Prayers and Big Hugs Your Way from California
Georgeann and Christopher
Forever
Gruntsmomforever

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Dear Monkey's Daddy,

I am so very sorry for your loss of your Beloved little kitty girl, Monkey.  Your website is so beautiful and it made me cry for you and the deep sadness in your heart.  I hope you find some comfort in knowing that we all know the sorrow you feel.  Monkey was a very beautiful and special little girl, with such endearing ways - it's so understandable why you would miss her so much.

It's so true what you say, life isn't the same anymore....for any of us.  We're all here helping each other through the dark tunnel of grief.  I lost my beloved Boxer boy, Grunt, in February and I still don't see any light at the end of the tunnel.

Sending you my deepest sympathy, and a prayer for Monkey at the Rainbow Bridge,

Katharine, Grunt's Mom Forever
jwintx

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(((Monkeys Daddy)))

Just wanted to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss of your precious lil' Monkey.  Your memorial site for her is so beautiful and so touching.  I lost my precious little girl, Angel, on 12-17-07 and day to day it is still difficult at times - I miss her so much.  I know you said you're not sure about believing in "signs", but I think it's quite possible that we receive signs from our loved ones.  Some may not be so blatantly obvious, but subtle signs and I've had some pretty good ones from my Angel.  I think if I didn't believe it was really a sign I just might go crazy thinking that I'd never see her again and I have to hang on to my belief that we love them so much that it just won't be heaven if we can't hold our furbabies again someday.  My heart goes out to you during this very difficult time because I know how you're feeling and what kind of pain you're going through.  Please know that everyone here on this site is here for you and hopefully by coming here as often as you can you can find some peace and comfort.

I'm going to light a candle for your sweet lil' Monkey... many hugs and prayers to you.
Monkeys_daddy

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Well, I did it. I finally picked up Monkey's cremains. It only took me 4 1/2 months to get up the nerve to do it.

I'm not going to put them out anywhere to look at or display, at least not now, probably not ever.

All it is is a sad reminder of sad times. I have all the good memories in my head. But thats all I have.


http://monkeys-room.com
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