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harley_charley71

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Last night I finally got the results of my babies biopsy. As the vet was talking my heart was racing and he said what I didnt want to hear. My precious Harley has Transitional Cell Carcinoma. They dont know how long he has but I haven't stopped crying. I cant even function today. I couldn't sleep last night cant eat or do anything. All I keep thinking about is the day I have to say goodbye. I'm so lost and feel like crawling in a hole and never coming out. This hurts so bad!
cosesmom

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Be strong for Harley. I know your heart broken and your pain is deep. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and Harley. Cherish him every day and make them special. Don't think about tomorrow just live for today just as they teach us everyday of their life. Remember they live in the moment and for now you should try. Harley wouldn't want you to be sad because all of his life his job was to give you unconditional love. I know how you feel, when Termy was diagnosed with stage four heart murmur I was devastated. But I did what I needed to and so will you. Be strong for Harley, he needs you now and even now he will give you love back.
Love and doggie hugs
Termy's mom
stronics

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Harley-Charley,
I know how you feel all too well. I am still grieving each day and it's been six months now. I still can't believe it.
I found out in September 2017 that my dearest Cooper had cancer and was incurable but we could fight it. We fought the fight for 5 months with chemotherapy.
I will say prayers for you and your loved one, I wish you lots of strength and moments with Harley.
David
Always__there

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Hello Charley,
Harley, an important member of the family.
At this moment in time, Quality time imperative as is his comforts and Kodak flash.... To precious Memories--Best Memories.
Warm Wishes,
Sherry/Perry-RIP 



 
harley_charley71

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Thank you everyone for your kind words. I'm really trying to be strong but when hes laying by me and I just look at him and start to cry knowing he wont be with me. Harley was my form of comfort when his brother Charley died at 6 years old 3 years ago from a heart tumor so we got really attached to each other. Never would of thought I would lose him so soon. Also, I'm so sorry to hear about all of your babies. I know we all have a heartbreaking story about losing our furbabies and I'm so happy I found this site as each of us give so much comfort with kind words and our stories knowing we are not alone in our pain. It really hurts cause I thought I'd have him till he was in hes teens not only 9 years old.
cosesmom

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You don't have to thank us but your welcome. This is why we are all here, to help each other. We come here to offer understanding and compassion to all that are grieving. Yes, we all suffer some form of heart ache but we wouldn't have missed the journey for anything in the world.
I miss Termy every single day and morn the loss of his companionship and unconditional love but I had him for over 16 years. Not long enough for me but a long time. I wish him back everyday. I have found that honoring him helps me heal somewhat.
I am so sorry that Charley left you so soon and now Harley is going to join his brother too. What a heart break for you. I hope that with his remaining time, care and love you can at least get 
some beautiful and lasting memories with him. Quality time is the most important now, weather it's cuddling on the sofa, a stroll around the neighborhood or sitting quietly just watching the sun come up, together. What ever makes you both happy.
Love and doggie hugs
Termy's mom
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