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It has been four weeks today that I lost my beloved Webster. I just cannot accept that he no longer exists. He was just such a special kitty and endured so many health problems in his 6-1/2 years. I have four other furbabies to love and take care of but I just miss Webster so much. I cry every day for him. I can't sit on the sofa to read because he used to sit on the back of it and rub his head against mine. And we used to look out the window and watch the birds and rabbits in the yard. I just cannot believe that he is gone. I miss you so much, Webster, and I love you so much.
I know you are no longer in pain and are with the other animals at the Rainbow Bridge. I have asked my angels to help you send me a sign that you are okay. I really need to know that you are okay. My love to you always, Webster!
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He is such a beautiful boy. I can see how special he is. The bond that you both had still remains, you are just seperated for the moment. Until you meet again. Much Love Di xxx
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I am sorry that you must endure this horrible separation from your beloved Webster. I know the pain and emptiness oh so well. I've been told that sometimes we can't see the sign because of the grief. Keep your heart open to the signs because I know that he will send them to you. That bond that you both share can never be broken and will live with you for the rest of your life.
Please try to find comfort in the fact that he is in your heart now and you will keep him there safe until you meet again. Margaret
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Thank you! Intellectually I know all the right things but emotionally and in my heart it is so very different. It seems I'm getting worse instead of better. Maybe just the realization that he is not with me -- except in my heart. Webster liked to drink water from a bowl on the bathroom sink as well as one on the kitchen sink. He also liked to drink from the kitchen faucet. One of my other furbabies (Emily) is now drinking from both bowls and playing with the water from the faucet. Another of my furbabies (Dugan) is also drinking from the bathroom bowl. They never really did that before so I'm thinking that may be Webster's sign. He's sending them to his old places.
I'm sorry for your loss or losses also. It is comforting that others know how I feel. Thank you again for your kind words!
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I am so sorry for your loss of Webster, oh what a sweet boy he is, so handsome and such a cute face. Yes the rollercoaster of grief seems neverending especially in the first few months without your beloved friend. It will continue like that for awhile but hopefully you will find comfort and peace knowing that your sweet boy is healthy and alive at the Bridge playing with all of our furbabies up there. He will always be a part of you, a part of who you are and a part of your soul. A connection such as the one you had with him never dies, it will live on until you meet again. I do wish you peace, please be gentle with yourself. I am approaching the one year bridge day of losing my sweet Peanut and I feel like a piece of me died right along with her as we had that very special connection as well.
Take care. Karen