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Debd4111

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My babies were almost 16 and I have had them together since day one. One family their whole llives brimgs me comfort they are not many pups that get this in their lives . I keep telling myself this but the guilt from choosing to say goodbye to save them from suffering more is eating away at me. I'm regretful for so much in the 16 years and its just flooding me - I can't stop crying I can't eat I can't .stop
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EileenD820

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Deb,

I am very sorry for your loss.  Sixteen years is a wonderfully long time to have our fur babies.  I don't know the circumstances surrounding your feelings of guilt, but I can only guess their health was failing and so you had to make the toughest decision there is.  I myself have had the same level of guilt and know where you are coming from.  My only suggestion would be to remember you had them for a long time and gave them a great life and in the end, you did what you felt was best for them.  It's those thoughts that are consoling me now in my time of guilt and grief.  I hope you find peace.  Take it one day at a time and be gentle with yourself.
Debd4111

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Eileen
Thank you for your kind words I really appreciate it. It helps me to know that there are other people who know how it feels. I feel guilty for everything I just don't know if ill ever stop crying
Debd4111

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Thank you for your kind words they help me more than you'll k now. I just continue to find things ive done In their lives and the guilt is paralyzing i
Debd4111

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It feels worse each day
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