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kanjay

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I lost my Sadie on August 11 2020. That day my life stopped. Sadie was 15yr4mo old, a black Dachshund. The night she died I had given her medication for congestion and pain. Sadie suffered from an immune rhinitis and had some difficulty with her back legs. She possibly had a tumor in her chest. She had been doing ok. That night I held her for awhile and then put her on her blankets because she always seemed to be more comfortable that way. I fell asleep and woke 15 minutes later to find her on her side onthe carpet. I picked her up as she took her last gasp of air. I don't understand what happened and I am so guilty for not holding her as she passed. The night before she had eaten a big meal . I didn't know she was so bad. I am so heartbroken I don't know what to do. She was my child and she touched my life in ways I didn't know was possible. Everything I believe in tells me I will see her again and that day cannot come soon enough. I miss her so much. I am so sorry. Our babies are here one moment and then gone. There is never enough time. Run and be happy Sadie. I love you so much. Wait for me.
kanjay

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I am so sorry Sadie. Please give me a sign you are ok
I wish I could hold you one more time. Our babies are gone too soon. There is never enough time. Just one moment they are here and then gone. Iove you so much Sadie
Be happy and wait for me. You are my sweetie girl.
InmemoryofRuby

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It was just her time. So many of us here have suffered the same immense loss that seems unbearable for so long, especially for your heart dog (or pet). I’ve cried over many a loss of beloved pets in my 62 years, and maybe it is just age talking but I don’t think so. My baby girl of 13 years, Ruby, a red English Cream mini dachshund was my latest loss, just 7 weeks ago, & has been the hardest for me. My wife cannot believe how I still mourn her but it is something totally uncontrollable. But it HAS gotten easier over time. My heart still swells in my chest when I think of the simplest things she did and her unconditional love. It is indeed far better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved like that at all. Sometime, somewhere, there is or will be, another wanting the same thing that you and your wonderful Sadie and me and my Ruby had. Something so special it can only be experienced and felt, rather than explained. Know that even though you get few responses here, it is not because no one cares, but rather because everyone here is experiencing something very similar, and our hearts can only stretch so much, so often. Best wishes in dealing with your grief.
kanjay

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In memory of Ruby. Thank you for your kind words. I am so sorry for your loss of Ruby. Deborah
choochoo

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Kanjay sorry for the loss of your loving Sadie.Know that she was loved and she returned that love 100 times because that’s what’s our pets do for us love us so much it hurts unbearable when they leave.You took care of her so don’t feel bad about her passing and not holding her .It was her time to go as even though we want them here forerver they have to leave but will be waiting for us at the rainbow bridge.You shared a great life together treasure that bond that you will always have.she was lucky she found you to love and you lucky to get that same love in return to enjoy your time together cherish that feeling.take care
choochoo

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Kanjay sorry for the loss of your loving Sadie.Know that she was loved and she returned that love 100 times because that’s what’s our pets do for us love us so much it hurts unbearable when they leave.You took care of her so don’t feel bad about her passing and not holding her .It was her time to go as even though we want them here forerver they have to leave but will be waiting for us at the rainbow bridge.You shared a great life together treasure that bond that you will always have.she was lucky she found you to love and you lucky to get that same love in return to enjoy your time together cherish that feeling.take care
kanjay

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Chocoholic. Thank you so much for responding to me. Your words are a comfort to me. Deborah
kanjay

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In memory of ruby and chocoholic. I just want to say I am sorry for not writing a longer reply to you. The loss of Sadie and the grief are unbearable right now. But once again I just want to let you know thank you. Your words mean so much.
choochoo

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Having to put my 17 yr old pug to sleep I know how much pain there is and it’s hard to think so writing a thank you is sometimes all our mind will allow us.it can be so unbearable I know the feeling.
Raytog

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I had to put my baby down last night. We have a vet come to our house so not to stress her going to an office. She was having a terrible time walking and I just feel awful about having to do it. I held her and talked to her while the sedative took hold of her and then the shot that stopped her breathing. It was my first time having a pet put down and it broke my heart. I know she is better off and she will be missed terribly by my wife and I. My wife rescued her as a puppy and we had 15 wonderful years with her sweet soul. Yes, I feel guilty and i know it will fade to happy memories but in the mean time I’ll cry everytime I think about her. I am just so glad the we were able to do that one last loving thing for her. I know how you feel right now!
kanjay

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Raytown. I am so sorry for your loss. I lozt my Sadie 4 weeks ago today. Not too many words come to me right now but I wanted you to know I understand your grief.
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