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Marisa8780

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It’s been 2 days that my Leo crossed the rainbow bridge and I can’t stop crying. I hate being in my house, it just feels so empty without his presence. I know it gets better but this pain is unbearable. I’ve had dogs my whole life and I have always grieved for them but with Leo it’s different. I feel the pain in my chest and I just can’t stop crying. I feel horrible to admit this but I didn’t even cry this much when my grandma passed away and I was so close with her. I feel like a horrible person even saying that. I just want this pain to go away. Every place in the house reminds me of him. I’m truly heartbroken.
Julie1970

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I could have written this post. I’m so sorry for your loss- I feel exactly the same. I have lived and lost other dogs, but this one is different. Ranger was my baby, my soul pet. I lost him yesterday. This loss I feel is overwhelming. It’s physical- I feel it in my chest like you do.. and it’s emotional. It’s unbearable. I wish I had words for you to make it better. I felt your post to my core and just wanted you to know that I understand and I wish you peace and strength to get through this.💔❤️
Marisa8780

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I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔 I hope this pain gets easier as time goes by. 🙏🏻
Heidi4907

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I could have written this too. It's been 3 months for me and the apartment still feels wrong without my big cat boy Coco, but I'm doing better. He was one of the extra special ones, and really like a therapy pet. I miss my daily doses of Coco. I also remember the pressure in my chest for the first few days. So sorry for your loss of Leo, and so sorry for the pain you're in.
Marisa8780

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I’m so sorry for your loss too. 😥 I want to get another dog already because my house feels so empty but I feel so guilty getting one so soon after. I’ve always had dogs in my life, I’ve never been without one. 😓
Heidi4907

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Nothing to feel at all guilty about. Some people wait and some don't. From my experience if it's too soon I'm just reminded by my new cat that it's not the one I lost, so it's bitter sweet. But I know about wanting to fill that void. You can (will) fall in love again, though.
Jmkaluza

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Its terrible to lose a loved pet, my girlfriend and I had a 9 month old pug who was healthy last week, out of nowhere she started acting strange and passed tonight due to multiple seizures its heartbreaking to lose a pet yet alone out of nowhere
Marisa8780

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I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏻
Tbre00

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I lost my 15 year old baby yesterday and as much as I just wanted to go home and get in bed it was also the last place I wanted to be because she wouldn’t be there next to me. I’m 31 and I got her when I was 15 (almost 16) so I don’t really even remember what life was like before her and now I’m stuck in the after. I keep asking where do I go from here? I also totally understand what you’re saying about it hurting worse than losing a family member, my grandma was so close to me, practically a mother and losing my baby hurt in a totally worse way. Someone laughed at me today when I compareAd it to feeling like I had lost a child.. I don’t have children.. she was my life... she was my child and now like I said I’m stuck in the after.

I understand your pain and I pray for us both for it to ease. Our babies are resting easy now.
Marisa8780

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I’m 39 and I have no children either so Leo was like a child to me. Unfortunately a lot of people don’t understand that a dog or cat is not just a pet but a part of your family. I’m glad you joined this forum because I’ve been on for about a week and it has helped ease the pain. Everyone on here has been so kind, I hope it helps you heal. I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby. 💙
Jmkaluza

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So sorry for your loss, I completely understand where you are coming from, I lost my father about 2 years ago and losing jade so suddenly after her being a healthy 9 month puppy was devastating, the lady who s0old me the dog contacted me and didnt even say she was sorry she was just trying to figure out if it was due to her breeding or us it made mr sick
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Marisa8780

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Hi Jmkaluza I am so sorry for your loss. That is devastating when you have a healthy puppy suddenly become ill and pass. Our furbabies become family and it’s just so hard to move on from the loss. Prayers to you!
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