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wolf5956

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It has been 5 weeks ago I lost my Annabella and reading the post here. ..have been good and hard...and I know I can not stand this pain for 6 months
Fibee

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Hi wolf5956,

I know exactly how you feel. We lost our Dooley dog 5 days ago. He was my best friend for 14 years. He had been in and out of hospital for renal failure, had lost so much weight and had stopped eating completely and could not stand up without help. I have so much guilt about having put him to sleep. I spend my days crying and feel sick to my stomach. There is not only pain but my identity as Dooley's mom is gone. I know that time helps to ease pain (I lost both my brother and my dad) but right now it is just unbearable.

I am hear to chat if you need.

Fi



wolf5956

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Thanks FI,

     Yes...they say time does help......but I don't  think so...my pain hurts even more now....I miss her so much....

             Bill...Annabelle's dad
Fibee

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Oh no Bill! The only thing that is helping me get through this is the hope that it will get easier. I feel like I am going crazy. I have no words of wisdom but please know that you are not alone. 
Pawprince

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I am sorry for the losses of your beloved pets. I am facing losing my beloved dog Arby to kidney disease. Trying to enjoy every day as much as I can, but still cry and am so sad as I face losing my beloved pet in the near future. Hurts so much. Can't imagine life without the love and companionship of my dog.
Fibee

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I am so so sorry Pawprince. It is incredible hard. Enjoy the time you have with your Arby as much as possible. You will know what decision needs to be made to make sure Arby passes over without too much pain. 

For me I am trying to take one day at a time. It is hard, but today I didn't cry for a few hours in the afternoon. So, progress!

Hugs Pawprince and Bill
wolf5956

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All I can say ......is it does not get any better with time....not for me anyway.....I miss her so much.......I try to forget.....but I cant....I love her too much.......Just hold and hug your baby and keep that in your heart when they are gone.......I wish I had done more.....but I know she is not in pain anymore.......but you become selfless and want to hold them longer.......torn....I don't want her to be in pain......but at the same time I don't want her to go........pure love.....we suffer in unbearable pain....so they can be at peace...

                                  Bill....Annabelle's dad 
                                I Love You Annabelle
wolf5956

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It has been 6 weeks now......that Annabelle has been gone........I have not slept very much.....I am so alone, she was a part of my very soul.....the pain is so unbearable.....time has not helped...only causes deeper pain...if that is possible.....I only want to be with her to hold her.......I love Annabelle with my soul and I am lost without her..........

   I read the post here and cry...but I know others feel the loss of their babies as deep as I do........but I also see that the pain is different for all of us here......some are able to help others cope.......but there are few like me......that...that cant seem to cope..... with the loss......we need our babies for our lives to go on.......how....when.....where....do we go from here......I for one can not even dream of my Annabelle ....its been weeks....and I miss her even more....it is hard to keep in mind the pain she had at the end and now has no pain.....but peace.......

   I lost my younger brother to cancer 11 days after Annabelle .......and thought it so unfair....he has a family, children, wife that needed him......while it would have been perfect if it had been me......I would be with Annabelle now and he with his children........I know this is hard to understand, but Annabelle was my child......Annabelle has cat sisters and one of them.....Ms May misses her a great deal.....but  she snuggles with my wife......Annabelle was my constant companion ......we slept together, we ate together, we walked around outside together, she was at my feet under my hobby desk....she was in my arms that last time.....I miss her.......

  Well I just needed to say this to someone and I know there is so much understanding here.....I cant voice my feeling to my family....they just don't understand....the loss I have been dealt.....And I do Thank you all for your post...it really does help to get our feelings of loss......despair....out to others whom understand the pain ......

                                                          Bill...Annabelle's dad
                                                          I love you Annabelle 
                                                          I miss you Annabelle


       
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