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Hello all, im a 19 year old girl and i live in Austria. I'm sorry my english is not very good but i have to write this now. 3 days ago on 18.12.2017 was the worst day of my life because i lost the love of my life, my 6 year old beautiful cat Mia. She got hit by a car, my mother found her in the morning, just 15 minutes after she let her go outside. I never thought that this could happen to us, i am so devastated i feel like im slowly dieing. No one understands me. And what i dont understand, a friend of me in another country said to me 2-3 days before "your cat lived long already, i think she will die soon, she will get hit by a car". i dont uderstand how this can happen. She meant evetything to me, i knew her from the day she was born, I had her in my arms when her eyes were still closed as a baby, she was always there for me in those 6 years and yesterday 3 months ago it was her birthday. I went through hard times i even thought of killing myself but then i thought "what would Mia do without me i cant let her alone". I feel so empty, its been 3 days now, and the pain is not getting less. We have so many good memories together, she was like a child for me. everything i ever wanted in my life was a cat and with 13 years i finally got her but now everything is over and i pray to god that he takes my life because i have no idea how to live without Mia, i miss everything of her, i miss cuddling with her, i miss her smell so much, the sounds she makes, her look,.. she was so beautiful. she was the prettiest cat on the world, i dont say it because she was mine.. She looked like a princess and i feel so heartbroken. Please someone help me i cant cope with this grief

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Dear Mia's mommy,
I am so sorry you lost your sweet Mia and so tragically. I know you feel the world has ended and your right. The world you knew is gone and now you have to try to move on in a different way, without Mia. It'll be hard and you will grieve for her for a long time. I know I still grieve for Termy (my little man) and I cry everyday and miss him very much. It doesn't matter how much time we get to share our life's journey with them, weather it be 16 years (as I had) or 6 years. It still hurts deep inside. I know you feel so very lost but Mia would want you to go on. She created memories with you to last.  Cherish her life and honor her by being strong. We are all here to support you and we all understand. Share with us, it helps.
Love and doggie hugs
Termy's mom
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