Petloss.com Logo. Puff and Midget under the rainbow

ALL the Pet Loss Message Boards are moderated to make this an ABSOLUTELY SAFE place for you to find support.
You must REGISTER before you can post or reply.
Posts and replies cannot be viewed until after they have been checked for content & released by the Board Moderators. - EdW
Pet Loss Grief Support Message Board
Sign up  |   |   |  Latest Topics
 
 
 


Reply
  Author   Comment  
Dianednd

Registered:
Posts: 6
 #1 
It has been close to 90 days since I lost Jasper. Jazzy was my sixth cat. I have loved everyone of my cats with all my heart and was with every one of them to the very end. They all had very long spoiled lives and losing each one was incredibly painful. Jasper has been different. If there is such a thing as having a pet soulmate it was him. His loss was unexpected and I’m not handling it well at all. I don’t have anyone to talk to about it and I feel like my heart is dying.
buddy2k

Registered:
Posts: 103
 #2 
I know exactly how you are feeling.  I too have had many pets who I loved and spoiled.  I lost Lilly almost one month ago.  She was my heartcat - soulmate cat.  I was devastated and unconsolable when she left.
I really think it broke my heart - my heart still physically hurts.  I am doing a bit better, however today after I woke up & went to get my coffee I broke down crying.  I too can't seem to get over not having her with me anymore.  I did buy a pet grief book, and theres a part in there about writing them a farewell letter, I have written the letter but havent finished the exercise of reading it out loud to someone.  Writing the letter was emotional, but, it did seem to help a bit.  I also contacted a pet communicator - which helped alot.  I know that in time the pain will get less.  At least I hope so.  But for now, there are painful reminders all around the house, everything she touched, every favourite spot, all her antics, everything.  Being on this site, and knowing that I'm not alone in this horrible grief helps a tiny bit too.  I hate life without my Lilly.  But, we have no choice do we.  Hoping one day we all find the peace we need.  Know that you're not alone.  We are all here with you.  Hopefully that helps a bit.  Hugs & love, Lilly's mom
kclaura

Registered:
Posts: 44
 #3 
I weep for you.  I weep with you.  I lost my boy, my special cat Moody 4 weeks ago today.  I miss him so.  
Take some small comfort in the knowledge that there are those here who understand.  

hugs
Dianednd

Registered:
Posts: 6
 #4 
To all of the people that write on this board. This has saved me right now. I felt so alone in my grief. I have never communicated in any kind of group online before. I don’t even use Facebook. I was at a point where I felt I was the only person in the world who could be in so much pain for a beloved pet. Reading these post and receiving answers to my post has given me hope that I will heal. Thank you all. The family we have all lost, I believe, are all together right now and I think somehow my Jazzy led me here.
Dianednd

Registered:
Posts: 6
 #5 
I’m feeling so overwhelmed today. My mom found out about 3 kittens who need a home and she asked me. I immediately went into sobs. Of course my heart opens up to an animal who needs someone to love them but I can’t figure out why it’s making me so incredibly hurt to think about it. I want to help these two precious kittens but the wave of sadness is confusing me. I don’t know what to do. I miss my baby so much and I think that even considering getting another cat makes it seem too real that he’s gone forever. I feel like curling up in a ball and crying for a year.
Atha

Registered:
Posts: 6
 #6 
It's incredibly painful, I am still hurting so much too. But maybe Jasper guided you to learn about those kittens.
Previous Topic | Next Topic
Print
Reply

Quick Navigation:

Easily create a Forum Website with Website Toolbox.

If you can, please help support this Message Board with a donation: