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Becky-Jo she was originally my Grandads dog but when he passed away I just knew I had to take her in, she was 12 at that time in 2015, we grew to love her so much she recently starting losing some weight but was still very active and happy, I had to cook her a roast beef dinner daily as it was the only thing she would eat, we decided to go on a last minute holiday last Sunday and my in-laws said they would look after both of my dogs, Becky didn’t adjust very well to the new surroundings and us not be there so wouldn’t eat, I returned today and my mother in law said she had passed away on Friday, my heart is broken I had a bad feeling about her on Saturday and obviously that was it, I’m overwhelmed with guilt for leaving her and will never forgive myself for going on that holiday that made her miss us so much it killed her, I’m broken xxx
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I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Becky-Jo. I know how deeply we come to love our pets; I hope you can find some comfort through this site -- filled with people who understand the love you have and the grief you're feeling over her passing. Thinking of you during this difficult time. ((hugs))
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So sorry for your broken heart and the pain you are going through now. Please don't blame yourself for Becky Jo's passing. It could have been a thousand different things that happened. You loved her deeply and she loved you. It could have been her time and your grandpa was calling her to join him. I am sorry you didn't get to say goodbye to her and I know that will haunt you for some time. Please find peace that she is with your grandpa and never to be separated from him. I know it's hard for you. Try to picture your grandpa at the Bridge as Becky Jo ran into his arms and together they walked into heaven. Sending you love and deep compassion for your loss.
Love and doggie hugs Termy's mom