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mistylee

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 #41 
Hello again, I see you are online so I'll try and write this quick...  kitties teeth are like needles... thus cause a puncture when they bite... I was told yesterday that a kitty bite or scratch is "dangerous" and I wondered why...well yes, they go in their litter box to cover their toileting and then clean their paws with their tongue..so to scratch us, we could get an infection and if they bite, well if they've licked their paws from the dirty litter then they have bacteria in their mouth... so a bite could get infected too... makes sense to me :)  so I'm trying to avoid both bites and scratches... I divert his attention with a toy rather then have him attack me...

Someone who has 2 cats told me to grab him by the scruff and talk in his face about how I don't like his attitude... thing is I'm not able to grab him fast enough before his mouth is open lol... 

As far as his first shots...no he hasn't had any yet... I need hubby to drive me there and he's always busy...maybe I'll get a kitty taxi ( carrying case) and go by bus... he really should have his shots and check up for worms etc....
LeeLeesMama

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Dear Mayra,
I just wanted to stop by and thank you again for the lovely note you wrote to me, I really appreciate your kind words.  Your Princess is just beautiful and Blanca too...they do favor one another.  I know Princess will always have a special place in your heart, but I hope that you and little Blanca have many, many years of love and happiness.

Hugs,
Melanie
~Lee Lee's Mama~
Lasweetbaby33

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 #43 
Hey misty,

Wow thanks for letting me know I didn't know how dangerous a bit or a scratch from a kitten could be. Now I know and I will definitely be more careful not to allow my blanca to bit or scratch anyone. I'm concern about her behavior as well because I'm not sure if she either has an aggressive behavior or she is just playing around with us because normally she is always attacking me, my husband, an my children, by trying to bite us or scratch us whenever we are sitting in the kitchen table or bed, or sofa. I already do that with my blanca whenever she has this type of behavior either my husband or me picks her up and stair right into her face and let her know that her attitude is not tolerated. In my opinion she seems to know what we are telling her but who knows if a kitty will learn not to have those type of behaviors. I have a lot to learn about kittens because I really don't want for my blanca to grow up and get someone injured. My blanca is different than my princess was my other one that passed away didn't have this type of behavior she was more calm and gentle to everyone, but blanca is more of a ruff kitten that is more of a joker and seems to enjoy playing around.

~ Mayra
Lasweetbaby33

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 #44 
Hi Melanie,

you are most certainly welcome. it was my pleasure being able to provide you with at least some words of comfort that made will make you feel better. I'm not sure how long its been since you have lost your lee lee but I know that wherever she is my princess an your lee lee are playing together and watching over us. Thank you for the kind words towards my blanca and my princess hugs back.

~ Mayra

Princess mommy <3 and now blanca's mommy
griefstricken

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Mayra,

your little Princess is beautiful. I read your story and so touched by it. Do not blame yourself it was not your fault at all. we all have those feelings of guilt for one reason or another. I have some of my own as well but we must keep reminding ourselves that we gave them excellent care and so much love throughout their lives. My little girl was like my human baby, and I am sure your Princess was the same to you.

take care my friend, will talk again

Griefstricken (Donna)
Lasweetbaby33

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Donna,

Thank you so much for your wonderful reply. Actually I never thought that I will no longer receive any replies from anyone. I'm just like you feeling like nobody cares about my lost and only try to reply to those similar to them. I'm still hurt and blame myself for what happen it sure was my fault for not taking good care of her that night. Its been 3 months since I lost my little girl and it seems like it was just yesterday that some driver took her away from me. I'm still having those horrible thoughts in my mind thinking that maybe a person with no hear did this on purpose to my little girl by running her over, because theirs a lot of cases like this happening in my area of people just running over little animals with all the intention of killing them. I don't know what to think today I'm crying while I'm writing this to you :'( I can't stand the pain I just want my little girl back. Like I been saying to you in all of your replies to maybe we can be each others support I would love to hear more about your Bella's story and see pictures of her if you don't mind sharing them with me. I will be sending you a private email soon ok. And again thanks for caring and replying I'm glad their still good people with good heart that cares for someone else is lost.
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Take care my new friend


Kindly regards,

~ Mayra

griefstricken

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 #47 
Hi Mayra, thank u for all your kind words as always.

I really do hope that was not the case with your little Princess that some one ran her over intentionally. I know that there are a lot of cruel people in this world but lets not think that in her case. It was not your fault it was just an accident that happened and in no way intentional on your part. I know exactly what u mean when u say you want her back. I think of my little girl in my arms every night wishing she would just come back to me. wishing that this was all just a terrible nightmare that I can wake up from and everything will be okay. This whole thing is consuming me more and more every day. I am so depressed. and I know u are going through the same thing over losing Princess and so is everyone else on here. we are all in such great pain and the outside world don't understand at all.

I hope we will find a way to cope but all I can do is hope that doesn't mean a way can be found.

ps. you mentioned that you wanted to see pictures of Bella, if you go in my profile u will see her pictures that I posted of her.

take care
healing and hugs to u
Griefstricken (Donna)
Lasweetbaby33

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Donna,

Thank you so much for staying in contact with me all the time I really need it. Im not feeling well today Im actually crying right now an missing my little girl. its almost going to be 4 months since I lost her an I feel like it was yesterday it happen. I think like you our pain will never go away it will pertain with us forever. thanks for taking the time to respond to my story hugs to you.

your friend,

Mayra
EliseT

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 #49 
Dear Mayra,

I am so sorry you are feeling down and sad lately. Four months is still so early in this grieving process because you love your sweet baby so deeply...she meant so much to you and like so many of us here, you are feeling such a huge void without her. I did not start to feel much better until the foster pup I'm taking care of arrived in early May this year. Eight months earlier, my baby Buddy passed and even after eight months my heart was still so broken. My heart will always be broken for him, and my foster pup could never replace him but she helped me so much because she needed my care and attention...she needed a lot of medical attention. I know that Buddy sent her for me to care for...to help with my healing process.

You will always miss your precious little princess girl...I don't think we ever stop missing our babies because they were and always will be a big part of us, and we continue to love them so much.

Wishing you a better day today - sending a big hug your way,

Elise, Buddy's mom
Lasweetbaby33

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 #50 
Hi Elise,

Sorry for the late reply but Im going through a lot lately that its very hard for me to come in here like I did before. Thank you so much for your wonderful words it means a lot to me. I cant help it Im feeling so down at this time that nothing seems to be helping me. As much as I try to write to my little girl I just cant. I cant write anything nice an sweet like everyone else is doing to their babies. My heart is still torn an very sad for the loss of my beloved princess. I do see others what beautiful memories an words they express to their babies an I just immediately break down into tears without any reason.

At this time I really need someone to talk to or be at the Candle ceremonies also been helping me a bit, but I cant attend them right now because I don't have access to a computer so Im only using my cell to log in. it breaks my heart not being able to attend this ceremonies I just to be there every single day, but now that my internet is off I can no longer use my computer so my cell is my only option to be here thank God I can at least be able to log in through my cell otherwise I will of been so crush. But I just hope that someday I will be able to attend these ceremonies again. it just makes me feel so close to my baby. an now it seems like I cant even dedicate her these ceremonies just for her :( Im so depress I wish their was somehow I could log into this chat from my phone.

I really appreciate your kind response you dont know how much it meant to me. I hope you are doing well an take care.

~ Mayra

princess mommy ❤❤❤❤
aanglada3

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Hi Mayra,

I came to your page to see what happened to your Princess and I feel so terribly sorry for you to have been the one to find her and see her that way. 

You wrote such wonderful things on my story and I could tell that you have a kind and wonderful love and compassion for others and for animals. 

I see Princess's picture on here and she is so adorable and cute and wonderful.  I wish there was something I could do for you, I wish I could tell you it is a dream.  What I can tell you is that one day you will be able to see her again in heaven.  I'm sorry if saying this is offensive to you, but I know how it has brought me so much comfort.  God takes so good care of our little fur babies and when he calls us, they will be there at the pearly gates ready to jump on us and lick our face because we made it!

I'm sorry your family is not being supportive and understanding.  I don't understand how some people don't see how pets are like family.  Maybe they have never had a bond that way you did with Princess and the way I do with my babies. 
It is a good thing you found this website, because you can see you are not alone.  People here feel your pain because they know what you are going through.  They are supportive just the way you have been supportive of me losing my baby Bentley. 

I truly want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for caring and responding to my post about Bentley.  He will always be my little baby and I appreciate you showing your compassion and heartfelt condolences. 

Hugs and love my dear friend

Arlene

Lasweetbaby33

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 #52 
Arlene,

For me is always a pleasure to give comfort and support to others even if I don't receive it in the same way. I want to become a psychologist so maybe that is my gift of practicing on here to by helping others while they are in grief. I could not be the best on words but I still do try to do my best. I thank you as well for the sweet reply of my baby calico cat princess I lost her 3 yrs ago in such terrible way. I hardly even thought that you will respond to me because many people don't. It still hurts me because she was a rescued kitten that came into my life to showed me what conditional love was. Thanks to her I was able to learn and become a lovely pet owner. It just hurts me that life is just so unfair that they have to leave us in the way they do. I was not able to get that much time with my princess I only had her for 4 months and after that a car hit her right in front of my house. Then after she passed away another calico cat named blanca arrived to my life. She looked so alike just like she was my princess sister, I had blanca for 3 yrs and then she also passed away on the same month as my princess did. June 28, 2017. 

I was already feeling a bit better since my princess passed away and then all of the sudden these horrible things came back to hunt me all over again like it did with her back in June 14, 2014. It's only been a couple of days since I lost my other baby to Blanca she was exactly a like as princess was but different color. She is the reason and princess to that I'm feeling the way I'm now. I don't know what to do anymore I'm scared, hurt, full of guilt for not being able to protect both of them and now they are gone. My blanca knew how much I loved her and if she was here she would be able to tell everyone that it was not my fault that she passed away. It just hurts me so much that people are blaming me of how she died. It was not my fault that blanca gotten so skinny and was losing weight. Because that is what happened to her intense of eating and drinking to me was not normal. 

She loved to eat all the time but it seem like when she ate something she was not able to digest it on her stomach. I did the best I could to protect her and take care of her as well as I did with princess. But I fail as a bad pet owner that I feel like now I hope both my babies are able to forgive me. Because the way I found blanca on June 28, 2017 was one of the worst pains that I could ever experience to. Thank you for your understanding arlene it means so much to me. Ever since I been on these site since the year 2014 I hardly even talked to anyone I was grieving on my own all the time and now I think I'm grieving on my own once more. I mainly a shy quiet person but when it comes to meeting people I'm always capable of staying in touch and helping each other with our grief process. I hope that doesn't bother you again hope you are doing well and if you ever need a friend or an ear just to listen I'm right now for you. Hugs to you as well take care.

your new friend,

Mayra 
HisLady326

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 #53 

Lasweetbaby,

Oh my gosh, I happened to open this thread, and even though it's been some time, my heart ached to hear of your loss and see the picture of your sweet little baby kitty. I wanted to say, how beautiful she was, and sorry for your loss, and my deepest compassion. I hope you are doing all right. I am about to light a candle for my sweet baby kitty Coco. I will think of your baby Princess. 

Caring thoughts,

Coco's Mom 

Lasweetbaby33

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Thank you so much Coco's mom.. yes it's been a few years since I lost my baby kitten princess. Ever since then I haven't been the same, Princess was my first rescued kitten that i had. But life decided to take her away from me in such a short period of time. Princess has not been the only kitten that I have lost, after her I had another one her named was Blanca that I recently just lost to. I happen to love kittens but since I know see that something seems to be happening that I keep losing them in such a short period of time one by one not good at all. So now I have decided to not be a cat's pet owner for a while until my heart is not breaking as it is right now. I thank you once again for taking the time to respond to my posting, and I'm also so sorry for the loss of your baby Coco I also have a dog name the same way. If you don't mind me asking what happened to our baby Coco? 

~ Mayra 
Atlaslucky84

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So sorry to hear about your loss of kitty. I bt she was special kitten. I will pray for you and coco's mother... we need the group support to deal with this. It is very hard to deal with the untimely occurrences.
Lasweetbaby33

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 #56 
Thank you to you too Atlaslucky84... She was very special to me and yes we do need these group. Thanks to these group support I haven't been feeling alone and I know that everyone has been through a loss and totally understands one another. 
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