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Hey everyone,

My Oreo passed away on 12-28, two days after my birthday. I found out he had a tumor in November. By the time I could afford the surgery, it was too last. The tumor grew and they couldn’t do the operation. It has been the worst time of my life. I don’t know how to get over him. And I know he doesn’t want me this way, but I am just sad. I feel like some people don’t understand because he was just a cat. But he was my cat. We were together for over 10 years. And I feel like it’s my fault he is gone. I could have gotten the surgery quicker. But the doctor said that it wouldn’t have matter. It was going to grow anyway. But, that doesn’t change how I feel. I had to put him down by myself. It was the hardest thing I have ever done.

Oreo was home. I moved to Nashville in July, and he was home. He was my only friend here. Yeah, I have people I talk to at work, but this was different. He greeted me at the door. He loved me and all my faults. His little heart was full of love. I just miss him so much.

So I am here. Asking for help, support, or just a listening ear. Thank you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. And I understand the pain you are going through. I lost my 13 1/2 old dog, Winston, on January 3rd. There isn't a day that I don't think of him. My home just isn't the same without him. My other dog also seems lost. I am happy that he's no longer in pain and suffering, but I do miss him and look forward to being with him again someday. That is what I am holding onto. Your Oreo will always be with you as well and someday you will see him again. Until that time, try to go on, live and love. RIP Oreo. Sending you lots of love and prayers. 

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I still hear my dog's tags as if she is walking through the house. Heck with people who do not understand. Grieve for him. He's worth it. 

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Thank you all for the comforting words. Some days are harder than others, as I know you all also feel. I am going to get a biodegradable urn and turn him into an indoor tree. That way he can live on in a different way.
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