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Hi, everyone. I just lost my sweet baby Bella on 2/4/20. I had her for 10 years (she was 5 when I got her), and she was my best friend and my soulmate. I miss her so much. I feel so guilty because she developed pyometra because she was never spayed. Pyometra requires an emergency spay, which I allowed, but when they opened her up, they found a mass on her kidney which had adhered to one of her ovaries. The vet recommended euthanasia. I just can't help but feel like this is my fault. I want her back so badly![image] 

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Hi Julia,

I hear you and I am with you.  My sweet baby Bella left us on wednesday 2/5/20.  I feel the same emotions as you are.  Should I have taken her to the vet sooner when she started breathing heavier, was there something that I could have done to save her, why didn't I do something sooner???
I am beating myself up with guilt....I would give anything to have a do-over.  The vets said she was stable just a few days previously.  Why did this have to happen?
My heart is broken and I too want her back so badly.  This is the price we pay for the deep love we share with them.
I am on this journey with you and all the others here.  With their support and caring may we all get through this together.

Baby Bella's Mom

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Thanks so much for your kind words. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby Bella, too. It just too quiet without them, isn't it? I just got her ashes yesterday from the vet. That was not the way I wanted to bring her home.
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