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Today marks a month since we let our 9 year old chihuahua mix go. I miss him so much. I feel like the more time goes by, the more I miss Tepito. These last few days , whenever I get the chance to be alone, I cry. I carry my pain with me. If I could only hold him one more time. If I look at his ashes , I feel like tears are ready to run down my face. Life without him just feels so weird.
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You will always miss Tepito for the rest of your life. Because of the love you shared there will always be a connection between the two of you. It's been over 19 months since I let my beloved Termy go and I miss him as much today as I did on September 18, 2017, maybe more. I too carry my pain inside.The only comfort I get is coming here to this site and reading other's posts and writing replies. Crying is good. It means that the love you shared with Tepito was so strong that your heart aches. As long as there are tears, the love remains. I often wish I could hold Termy one last time just to smell him, feel his heart beat and let his fur dry my tears. Memories is all we have. Our babies made each day special, creating memories for us, so that when they go to the Bridge we could recall all those things that they did that will have to last us until the day we can join them at the Bridge. Your pain is very new and it will take time to get used to the new normal, a life without them.I know it's hard, just be gentle with yourself and give it time. Remember the journey. Love and doggie hugs Termy's mom
Registered: 1557850165 Posts: 9
Marcy im so sorry for your loss. I had to put down my 11 year old Chihuahua mix 3 days ago. Its hurts so much. The pain is unbearable. I cry talking to her ashes. Im not sure how im going to get through it.
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I'm sorry about your loss of Tepito. I hear you in your grief. I've been grieving 5 months. I lost my 6-yr old Chihuahua mix tragically. The tears keep coming.
Your loss is new. Come back here to this forum and you will find comfort. People here understand. Grieve as long as you need.. Again, I'm sorry, ~Parker's Mom