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I hope I came to the right place to talk about this. I went through a breakup after being with someone for 10 years. 4 years into the relationship we got a dog together. I had to leave the relationship in order to get myself to a happy place in life. He told me he was keeping the dog and I was never going to be able to see her. I knew I would never be able to share her with him because our relationship was beyond horrible. I let him keep her because I knew she would be well taken care of. I moved across the country 6 months ago and i think about her every day. I feel like I abandoned her and although my ex now says I can see her, I don't know if it would start the grieving process all over again when I'd have to leave again. I just don't know what the right thing to do is.

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Miss my doggy.
I am sorry this response is so late. I think it would be like a child. Yes, after seeing you she will miss you but with a love and a tenderness. She would not be angry with you.
For you, it might start the grief right back up. It will just have to be a decision of is the pain with the moments of togetherness. No one can answer that for you but you will find it in your heart to know the answer.

Paula - Raider’s mom
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