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My pain is getting worse. These obsessive thoughts of what happened to him and what if will not leave my head. What if he broke his neck and I didnt know when I picked him up and me picking him up killed him?
Somebody please help me. I do not want to live.

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My heart aches for you.  We are all in such pain.  The first thought I have when I open my eyes, is that my sweet Lilly isn't here, and I honestly don't even want to get out of bed anymore.  Lilly was only 6, and the sunshine & joy in my life.  The what if thoughts you are having must be very hard to deal with, but you didn't kill him.  He had an accident.  You only wanted the very best for him his whole life, and he knew that.  He felt your love his whole life.  Maybe you can call your vet's office, and ask for advice on where to get some help, or someone to talk to?  A grief counselling type thing?  If you feel really overwhelmed perhaps a suicide prevention hotline? You are not in this alone. We all feel your pain. It IS painful. Keep coming here to talk about it, that can help too.  Love & hugs to you - Lilly's mom  We all care

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My heart aches for you too. Your sweet Lilly, just like my Greenbean, both had so much more time here with us and I think that is one of the hardest things to think about. Why did they have to be cheated and robbed of so much life and love.. my Greenbean was so so so happy always and I can't think that he is in a better place because his better place was here with me. He loved me and needed me. I know you gave Lilly that same love and I know how happy you made her too, especially in her final days and moments. I'm glad that she knew how deep your love for her was and is. All I have done is lay in bed and the mornings are the absolute worst. My mom is putting up Christmas decorations and I'm just here in her bed crying again.
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