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I lost my Gregy four weeks ago. . . We had been together for 9 years and I got him when I was 7. He was my life. . . my teddy bear to hold at night.
The grief still hits me hard. . . It stabs me with the same momentum as the day I lost him. Its overpowering but it makes me think of him. I am still haunted by the memories of his final hours and the hours after his death when I buried him. I cant think of anything happy about him as these memories overshadow the good times. Im waiting for a sign that hes okay but my grief prevents it. I still leave my bedroom door open just enough to let in his large cat spirit but I havnt felt his presence yet.
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I am so very sorry for you loss of precious Gregy. I understand the grief you feel. I am sue that Gregy is there with you. The powerful grief you have is just now allowing you to feel him yet but HE IS THERE. The good memories are lying just beneath the surface. I know it's hard but push out the sad memories of Gregy's last hours and death ~ Gregy wouldn't want you to remember him that way. Let the good, happy memories of your belove boy resurface and help you heal. Lean on us here and we will carry you through the grief to a place where the good memories abound. When you are able to, please share those wonderful memories with us. We would love to get to know Gregy and you.
God bless, Linda
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It will get easier. Those images in the last days will fade eventually. For everyone it is different timing. It takes a long long time to get through a loss of this kind.
Registered: 1219887733 Posts: 11,059
Moving past the last hours spent with our pets is very difficult. The last hours of my bunny's life were very sad...he was having such a hard time and there was nothing I could do for him but be there and pray. The memories of the last hours will fade in time and you truly will remember the fun and neat times with your Gregy. Our babies blessed our lives.
Mare precious Christoph ~ my sweet little mini rex bunny boy ~
Registered: 1279288501 Posts: 564
Tania, your loss of Gregy is still so recent....it would be more strange if you didn't feel the deep pain that you're currently feeling! Those of us who love our babies so deeply also feel their loss more deeply than most. One thing to remember is that you have sent so much love with Gregy over to the other side......to the Bridge where all of the animals play and are happy and healthy! I believe that those who left us with so much of our love hold high places at the Bridge...and that they share the love with those poor pets that were abused or neglected and did not have someone special like you to cherish them while they were alive!
The pain will become less...that is natural with time. You will see signs of Gregy when you least expect it. Leave yourself open to the experience! May God comfort you in your pain, and know that you too are loved! Gregy is with you! Rick
Registered: 1285553441 Posts: 22
Tania - I feel that we are going through the same thing at the moment. I can't move past the loss of my Luigi and the last night of his life was the hardest night of my life and I can get the horrible images and sounds from that night out of my head. I really want to remeber the good times but that night keeps playing over and over in my head. I hope we both get through this. I hate it. I'll be thinking of you x
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Your precious Gregy will let you know that he is alright and will watch over you as you heal. It will take time...
My thoughts are with you and Gregy.