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Daharshaw97

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Hi there, last Monday my family and I had to tragically put down our Golden Retriever. He was battling Lymphoma for the past 4 months. God blessed us many more times with him with having go through different chemo's. He had his good and bad days. Last Monday though, I had to help my mom carry him into the house because he could not use his legs anymore. It broke my heart and I knew what was coming. I could see it in his eyes. I miss him so incredibly much. Not a day goes by that I do not think about him. I still can see him walking around in the back yard, playing with our other dog who is a Yellow Lab. I feel so sorry for her. I see the pain in her eyes because she knows her best friend is gone, for now. I miss him so incredibly much and just want to cry typing out all this. The house feels so weird and empty without him. I just hope and pray to God so much that we will see him again. Would you guys mind just comforting me in these times? Do you guys think we will see him again? I have faith that we will. It is just hard right now. Thank you for the support and much love to all those out there who are dealing with a loss. I pray for all of you.  
Always__there

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Hello Dahar,
Heartbreaking as I read along ! A family pet indeed and to end all suffering, the most humane thing to do is to end their suffering, that in itself is an Act of Love, so view it in those terms. Strong and intense is the bond, we, as pet owners are not just losing the pet but the loss of unconditional and constant companion. I believe WE are linked to Our pets through connective energy that carries on into afterlife. I know your family cares deeply and so one has to experience the real emotion before anything improves, that is the price to pay for the love of your Pet. So, lite a candle to light the way of your beloved pet. To happier times....Remember, Your Pet lives On* your Heart. We feel your despair.   Warmest of wishes....                                  Sherry/Perryx
Al_B

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Dahar, I too had to say good-bye to my best friend Bear last Monday. So today will be a week for you and I. He turned 14 in November. So going on 14 1/2. My guy had good and bad days but last Monday he just gave me that look that all pet lovers dread. But I think that look is asking mom and dad to help them stop the pain. And yes, I have had the guilt over the past week. But I also try to think when he was young and running around like I'm sure your guy did. Why do they have to get old? Why do they have to get sick? Why do they have to leave us lonely? I don't have the answers but it will take time. One thing that I am doing now and did with my Sam 15 yrs ago is write them a letter. I'm on page 5 for Bear right now. I have written my feelings towards him. How I am feeling now and how much I miss him. Yes, even the guilt I feel. I also write about the good times. The time he made me laugh. The times he would run around with the sprinkler or chase the chipmunks. You asked if you will see him again. I'm counting on it. Please read the Rainbow Bridge story on this site. It helped me. Al
Daharshaw97

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I am so incredibly sorry to hear about Bear. I read your story about him. It was very tear jerking. You and I are in this together. It’s very sad to think last week on this day was the last day our sweet boys would be with us on this planet. I know though we will see them again one day. God loves all his creations and gave them all the breath of life. I’m sure Bear and Gibson have already met up in Heaven already, along with all our other doggies and are all just having the time of their lives.
Missing_Coco

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As a Christian, I believe I will see my baby Coco again. She's up in heaven waiting. I just hope she's being looked after by my dad and both my pops. Xx
Daharshaw97

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Thank you for both of your responses, it brings comfort to me. I read your story about Bear, it brought tears to my eyes reading it. It makes me so sad that today last week was the last day we would be with our boys on this planet. I know though that they both are in Heaven and are having the time of their lives. I am sure Gibson and Bear have already met, along with all our other pets up there. I bet they are running around together up there. God loves all his creations and gave them the breath of life. We are all in this together, we all need to have each others backs and lean on God. He feels our pain and loves us unconditionally, along with our pets.
Al_B

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Dahar, if you want, please add Gibson's picture to your profile. I would love to see him. You can click on my ID in the left hand corner of this message to see my boy Bear. And yes, they are both running around together. Take care.
Rhynoh

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I lost my 9 year old girl Sasha to lymphoma last July.  It was quick -- 4 days.  It breaks my heart that there's not more we could do for our animals.  I'm sure Gibson and Bear are playing, along with Sasha. 
Daharshaw97

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This is my precious boy. Most lovable dog in the world. All he wanted was our love. He would give us his own hugs by coming up to us and sitting on his back feet and wrap his front feet around our waste. That was his way of giving us hugs. Makes me very emotional just thinking about that and looking at this picture. This was taken the week before he passed when he seemed to be doing pretty good.

Daharshaw97

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I know how it feels. It was devastating finding out about Gibson’s lymphoma then finding out there was no cure for it. The chemos helped make him feel better for a couple months. But last Monday we knew t was time. I know for a fact that bear Gibson and Sasha are all up there running around. They are healthy and not in any pain. They can’t wait till the day we join them. We will see them again one day. Many prayers are going out to you.
Tammys

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Daharshaw97. Sorry to hear about your precious golden we went through that last July with our 12 year old golden lucky . it has been almost 9 months for me the same thing happened to my baby when I read yours it made me cry. I do believe our fur babies will be in heaven waiting for us. If you can amazon has a book u can down load it is Signs of pets in the after life. It has really helped me. I hear and feel lucky at home at all times it is like he hasn't died but his spirit is with me. It comforting knowing he will be with me. Especially since my husband passed away in December and my dad in February. One night I felt him jump on the end of the bed. He heard me crying one night while a I was taking a shower I had a real strong sense he was out waiting for outside the bathroom door and sure enough he was I have 2 picture of him waiting for me and one of him laying at the bottom of the stairs. This was all after we had to put him to sleep he has been with me since . also I have been having visitation dreams of him being healthy also some dreams of him being with my late husband and being healthy.
Daharshaw97

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Hi Tammy, I am so sorry to hear about your Golden as well. We know as owners of these dogs how much love they give to us. Gibson was a mamas boy. He was my moms partner and crime, her sidekick, he was everyones sidekick though. I know we will be reunited with our babies up in Gods kingdom. They are waiting for us, they miss us, but we know that they are also having the time of their lives up in Heaven. God and your late husband are looking out over them. Not a day goes by that I don't think about Gibson. I know exactly how you feel. Many prayers are going out towards you.

God bless,

Daniel
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