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Sabrina_Buster10

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I'm having an especially difficult time today.  Missing Sabrina and aching for her.  I've had tears in my eyes several times and can't seem to get past the sadness tonight.  It's been 51 days since I let her go and gave her peace.

God I miss her.  I just miss her so very much.

cosesmom

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Hi Sabrina's mom,
I know the feeling. You are going to have days that will make you feel like it was yesterday and the pain is so deep and raw. I let Termy go almost seven months and I still shed a tear every day. There are days, especially over the weekends That I miss him so much and I sob by heart out. We both feel we did the best thing for our babies by giving them peace but the pain and heart ache remain. Give it some time. Take each day as it comes. If you feel like crying, then cry. You are gonna have some ups and downs for a while. The love you shared was special, hold onto that and the memories. It's all we have now.
Love to you and doggie hugs
Termy's mom
RF

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My sweet cat Henry died a week ago, and I still am having trouble processing it.   I just keep thinking how could this happen???  Why????  And I miss him so much.  He was so special. I give my other cat extra cuddles, because they were best buds.  I've been though this so many times in my life, and it really never gets easier.  They make a place in our hearts and when they have to go it leaves such an aching void.  But we carry on, the cutting grief lessens a bit.  Life goes on, I guess.   Maybe I'll adopt another sweet kitty, and give it the love my Henry would have gotten.  He would like that, I'm pretty sure.
grievingmom

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Grief attacks are especially painful. They seem to have all the pain you can muster wrapped up in them. Know that these attacks don't last forever and that they come and go and don't stay forever.
Sabrina_Buster10

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Thank you all for your kind words and support.  So sorry to hear about Henry, I'm sure he was very special.  It's also special that you and his surviving sibling can comfort each other.  When Buster died just over a year ago I still had Sabrina.  We helped each other, but now the house is empty and cold.  But I do know their spirits and souls are here and always will be.

Sabrina & Buster's Mom

dhaight71

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Its normal. My sweet Coco left me 9 days ago and I am having a horrible time today. Some days are okay, some days I try and not think about her and some days its all I think about. Today all I want is her back. 
Pawprince

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved pets. My heart goes out to you, and I understand the pain from losing someone so close and well-loved. Please know you are not alone.
Sabrina_Buster10

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"Pawprince."  What a precious name.  Not sure if it's your nickname for the Message Board, or maybe the name of your beloved pet, but it's beautiful.

Sabrina & Buster's Mom
Pawprince

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Sabrina & Buster's mom - Thank you! Pawprince is my internet name ... and kind of another name (or way to describe) for my dog, Arby :)
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