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feelingcrushed

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I'm so sorry for your loss.   feelings empty is a terrible desperate feelings.  I relate to the feelings expressed in the title completely.   I don't know what to do with myself.  I feel numb and then an intense pain that feels overwhelming. You're not alone.  Many of us are grieving our beloved pets the same we would a human. 

Much love to you.
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Hi Skye girl, 28 weeks today since you went. How time flies! Some days I think I will never stop missing you. I have made so many adjustments in my life without you. I would just love to give you a big hug and feel your beautiful head on my lap again. Feels like such a big hole in my heart without you and Cass. As you would know we have a new companion. His name is Cuba and he is an American staffy. He's a big boy. Much bigger than you girls. He's a lovely boy. Needs some training as he's very strong willed just like you both were. He will never replace you but he will find a new place in my heart over time. Love you so much little girl. Xxx
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Hi Cassie girl, 94 weeks today since I have seen you. Still miss you little girl. I am so glad I have kept a journal over the last few years so I can write my thoughts and memories about you and Skye. Sometimes I read back over it and it brings me great comfort. Our new boy is settling in well although he needs a lot of training. He has so many traits that are like you and Skye. He's very nosy like you Cass. Every time we open the pantry he sticks his nose in to see inside. And he loves rubbing his nose over the windows like you did when you were looking outside. He likes cuddles but is way too big to sit on my knee like you. I loved the way you would cuddle on my knees while we were watching T.V. You were such a loving little girl. Cass, I know the memories of you will never fade. You will always be in my heart. Love you . Xxx
Mygirls

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Skye baby, 29 weeks today since you left us. It's my birthday today and the first one without you and the second without Cass. I felt very teary this morning without you. Dad gave me a beautiful card from you and Skye and our new boy Cuba. I miss you so much at times like this. You always gave me a big birthday lick. I have been busy with training our new boy. Being a rescue dog his training was neglected but I think he will respond well. I know you girls are watching over us and probably having a good old laugh at times. I remember that you were both very stubborn girls at times but we all worked hard and you both ended up being such good girls. I love you so much my darling. Xxxx
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Hey Cassie dog, 95 weeks today since we said goodbye. You would be loving the weather at the moment. We are having a brief spell of cool weather and we have even had a little rain. But the summer temps will be going up again over the next day or so. You feel so close lately. I think it is because of having our new dog. He reminds me so much of you. So determined and stubborn but so funny at times. He is a handful at the moment but is starting to settle in with us. I know that you and Skye are helping us and watching over us. I still miss you baby girl and ache for you some days. Love my darling. Xx
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Its been a little over 3 weeks for me to losing my little boy Rico Suave to. I feel the same as you sad and empty. I know how you feel. He was like my child also. I cry all the time too. He got sick on a Sunday and died on Tuesday. I couldn't afford to take him to the vet. I blame myself. But now I know he's on the bridge playing with your girls . They looking down on us telling us not to cry. One day will be with them too. It's nice that strangers help us with our sorrow. Rest in peace little girls and my Rico suave -
Mygirls

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Hi Skye doggy, it's been 30 weeks since you went. Still miss you every day. I have been quite teary lately and I think it's because of our new boy. He triggers so many memories of you with the things he does. I feel you with me so strongly some days and just wish I could reach out and touch you and hold you. Losing you and Cassie has been such a long and sad journey for me. I wonder if I will ever love another dog as much as you two. You were such special girls to me. Love you baby girl. Xxx
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Hi Cassie girl, 96 weeks since I gave you a cuddle as we put you to sleep. Still miss you every day. You and Skye will always be my heart dogs. It seems such a long time since you left us but other times it is like yesterday. I still talk to every day and let you know what we are up to. I have so many little reminders of you. I know you and Skye are together and that gives me great comfort. Love you lots. Xx
Mygirls

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Skye baby, 31 weeks today. God how time flies! Can't believe it is over 6 months since you left us. I was at work last night and all of a sudden I thought of you and you felt so close. I burst into tears as I felt as if I could reach out and touch you. It's moments like these that I realise how I still grieve for you and miss you desperately. Our new boy is not well Skye. He has been vomiting so Dad has taken him to the vet. He may have eaten something as he still likes to chew things. Remember all the vet visits we took you to Skye. You hated going. Such a sensitive little girl. We had to make a few mad dashes to vets at night. But you were worth every visit. We never minded as you were so precious to us. I love you very much Skye baby. Xxxx
NowImfree

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I'm so sorry for your lost I truly understand I cry day and night .I need to communicate as well I'm going to a program to get help if I don't go I'm not going to make it .I took a leave of absence from my job just yesterday because I very depress
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Hi Cassie dog, 97 weeks today. Still miss you. All your funny habits and your wonderful cuddles. We are experiencing a heatwave at the moment. You would hate this weather. I will be glad when summer is over. We want some "Cassie weather!" The sort of weather where you could go exploring in the bush and nose around without worrying about snakes. You were so nosy. Are you like that at Rainbow Bridge? I love you baby girl. Xxxx
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Hey Skye doggie, it's 32 weeks today since we said goodbye. I don't cry as much but I still think of you every day and still miss you so much. I still can't watch videos that I have of you. I wish I could but it just upsets me too much. I don't know when I will be able to. It is still very hot and no relief in sight for a few more days. We would have taken you girls to the beach which you just loved. You played in the water and ran after the ball we threw for you until you you were exhausted. I think our new boy is going to be like you Skye and love the water. He loves being sprayed with the hose and plays in the water. I think he is helping me to heal with the loss of you and Cassie and he is starting to bond with your Dad and me. Have lots of fun with Cass and remember how much I love you. Xxx
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Hey Cassie girl, 98 weeks today since we said goodbye. Still miss you. Will always miss you. My little black bundle of mischief. Even when you were sick you got up to no good. You were always such a happy girl and always had a big smile on your face. Even the day we put you to sleep you were pottering around although with difficulty. I love you so much baby girl. Xxxx
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My beautiful girl Skye, 33weeks today since I've seen you. You were gone so suddenly within a day of your diagnosis. I don't think I will ever get over how you were so healthy one day and the next so ill. I hope you are watching over us with our new boy. We need your guidance in training him. Poor boy did not have a good start in life so we have to help him with your help and Cassie's. Still miss you every day and not a day goes by without thinking of the time we spent together. I love you darling girl. Xxx
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Hello beautiful Cassie girl, 99 weeks today since you went. Only about 5 weeks to your second anniversary at Rainbow Bridge. God I can't believe it has been so long. I still miss you every day and think of you all the time. You will be with me forever little girl. Love you so much. Xxx
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Hey Skye doggie, 34 weeks today since I held you close to me. I still cry when I think of putting you to sleep. It was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. Still miss you my darling girl. We are very busy with our new boy and he is training well. Still some things that need work but he has improved so much. I know you and Cass are looking over him and helping. Please watch over him while we go away on holidays. Love you little girl. Xx
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Hey Cassie girl, 100 weeks today since I cuddled you. Only 4 more weeks to your 2nd anniversary at Rainbow Bridge. I have been doing lots of meditation and sound healing lately and you and Skye always appear to me in my thoughts. It's such a lovely quiet time that I share with you. Still miss you. Some days are good and some days are sad. I realise that it will always be like this but I still would not swap all those wonderful years we had together. Love you baby girl. Xxxxx
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Hi Skye, 35 weeks today since you left us. Still miss you so much. We are away from home at the moment and knowing you won't be there when we get home still upsets me. That was always such a wonderful feeling knowing you would be waiting for us with lots of cuddles and licks. Love you so much little girl. Xxx
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Hi Cassie girl, 101 weeks today since you went. It's Dad's birthday today. The second without you. I know you will be thinking of him. We are still away from home on holidays. Even though we are having a wonderful time I still miss our home. I know you are with us in spirit but I always feel closer to you when we are all together on our beautiful property. Love you lots Cassie dog. Xxx
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Hi Skye doggie, 36 weeks today since you went. Still away on holidays and think of you often. I was walking down one of the streets in Hoian in Vietnam and thought of you out of the blue and started crying. A huge wave of sadness hit me so hard. Even after all this time I still miss you so much. Love you my beautiful girl xxx
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Hey Cassie dog, 102 weeks since you left us. Nearly 2 years since you went to Rainbow Bridge. Even though the sadnes has lessened over time I still miss you all the time and the empty feeling is still with me. I still have teary days and I think this will be part of my life forever. Take care beautiful girl. Love you. Xxx
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Hey Skye, 37 weeks today since you left us. Have just got home from holidays and even after this amount of time I still find it so empty you not being here to greet us. While away on holidays I found myself thinking of you and Cass a lot and being quite teary. I kept thinking about all the times we got home and you were so excited to see us and I would always feel so happy and content to be home again with you. I love you my beautiful girl. Xxxx
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Hey Cassie girl, 103 weeks today since you left us. Can't believe it. Nearly 2 years! They say time heals you and I suppose I have compared to what I was like in the first months that you left us but I still miss you very much. Losing you and Skye within 15 months of each other has been so hard and last year was not a good year. But as you know beautiful girl we have our new boy. It has taken me a while to bond with him but it's starting to happen and I suppose in a way he has helped with my grief. Sometimes it's hard because he reminds me of you but he also triggers lots of memories of happy times with you. I love you so much little girl. You will always be with me. Xxxxxx
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What a great journal. To see that two years later you have kept such a close connection with your babies is very heart warming. I just lost my boy 28hrs ago and it was very sudden, but I know he is at peace and so are your girls. I hope Cuba is doing well, and I look forward to the days when my Peter's memories bring me happiness instead of sadness. Just like Cassie and Skye do for you.
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Hi Skye baby, 38 weeks today since you have been gone. We are settling back into our routine after being away on holidays. Still strange that you are not here with us but I still told you all about our time away although I know your spirit would have been with us at times. I still can't believe it has been so long since you have gone. You are still so close to me and I still feel you so strongly. God I miss you so much at times it makes me cry. But I know that you and Cass are together and happy. Love you baby girl. Xxxx
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Today, Samantha and I visited the local Humane society and saw a black American Staffy/mastiff named Creed that was really shy but very cuddly. Reminded us of Peter. He'd been there for nearly two months so we paid his adoption fees and guess what? Someone adopted him just a few hours after we left! It felt so good to give him a home, even though it couldn't be ours. I think we may do this a couple times a year. It really helped.
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Hey Cassie girl, 104 weeks today since we said our goodbyes to you. I can still remember it so vividly. Even now when I think of it I get teary. 2 years to the day but not the date. That's on Monday 28th. Still miss you every day and think of your funny little ways. Two years has gone by so quickly. I just can't get my head around it. Even though the time has gone by quickly your memories are still very vivid. I love you so much little girl and know that you are with us in spirit always. Xxxx
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Hi Skye doggy, 39 weeks since you went away. The weather is starting to cool down and we had some rain! So nice to have the beautiful bush smells after rain. You would have loved it. Running around sniffing all the bushes and rolling around in the leaf litter. I miss all those little habits of yours. It was Cassie's 2nd anniversary at the Bridge yesterday. I hope you were together. We are training Cuba and he is a lovely boy. It has taken a while for me to bond with him as it felt strange having another dog. I know you girls have helped in spirit but even as I write this I am teary as I still miss you so much. I love you little girl. Xxx
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Hi little Cass, it's 105 weeks today. You have passed your 2nd anniversary. I was very teary this last week thinking about you. I wish you were here with us. You would be loving this weather. So much cooler and fantastic for rummaging in the grass trees as you always loved to do. Sometimes I wonder if this intense feeling of missing you will ever fade. I just don't think it ever will. You were with us for nearly 13 years. Such a big part of our lives. Love you baby girl. Xxxx
Mygirls

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Skye baby, 40 weeks today. Can't believe it. I wish so much you were here. The days are beautiful and the early mornings are so lovely. No wind and all the birds are singing and the gardens are all coming alive with the cooler weather. I can just see you now, bursting through your doggy door and racing around the property first thing in the morning. You had such a great love of life. Such a happy, placid girl. Love you my darling girl. Xxxx
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Hey little Cass girl, 106 weeks today since you left us. I am missing you so much at the moment and very teary. Just can't seem to get over this hump at the moment. You are such a special little girl. Sometimes I ache to give you a cuddle. Your fur was so soft and you would cuddle up on my lap or sit next to me and put your little paw on my lap as if to say "this is my Mum." You were so loving. I love you so much baby girl. Xxx
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Hey Skye doggy, 41 weeks today. We've had some more rain and the property looks beautiful. All the dust has been washed away and the bush smells amazing. Wish you were here to enjoy it but I know you are here in spirit and looking over us and our beautiful home. Still trying to get over the hump at the moment. Starting to feel a little better. Awful how grief hits so hard at times. We had a big snake in our wood pile the other day. I always used to worry about snakes with you and Cass. Now we have Cuba to watch over. He is progressing nicely and I'm sure you and Cass have had a paw in that. Love you little girl. Xxx
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Hi Cass, 107 weeks today. I still can't believe how the time goes by so quickly. It was Adam's birthday yesterday and he turned 35. Can you believe that! He was only 20 when you came to us and you used to sleep on his bed. When he left home you missed him but he always came to visit you. I am feeling better and think I have got over the hump this time. Think of you every day little girl and miss you heaps. Xxxx
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Hey Skye doggy, 42 weeks today. We had a lot of rain last night. I'm sure you already know that. You know how I was when it rained. I get very excited and think of all the rain going into our tanks. We used to go walking in the rain and we would run and you would shake yourself and sometimes we would find a tree to shelter under. But most of the time we would just continue with the walk. You used to have such fun. Then we would get warm and dry ourselves by the fire when we got home. This will be our first full winter without you. I would snuggle up on the lounge with you and Cassie by the fire. I still miss you so much. Even though I have got over this last hump I know I will have more. It hits me so suddenly and I feel so sad for days. But I know you watch over me and don't want me to be sad but I can't help it. Love you baby girl. Xxxx
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Hi Cass, my little darling. 108 weeks today. Adam and I were talking about you yesterday and remembering all the funny things you did. You were such a little character. You used to hate getting your feet wet in winter. And how you would hide under our bed and we would play peek a boo with you. I call this mild sunny weather "Cassie Weather." It was the time that you would run around the property into everything you could find. If we had piles of mulch or soil for the gardens you would dig huge holes in it and spend ages playing in it. You brought so much laughter into our lives. Love you little girl. Xx
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Hi Skye doggy, 43 weeks today. I can't believe that there have been so many changes in my life in the last year. This time last year you were still with us and you were well and happy. We had no idea that you would be gone in just a couple of months. We were planning on taking you on a holiday with us. And then all of a sudden you were gone. It happened so quickly and even now after all this time I still find it hard to accept and understand. And now we have a new dog and he is lovely but I still miss you and Cass so much. I have been feeling your presence very strongly lately. It comforts me a lot. Love you so much Skye baby. Xxx
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Hi Cass baby, 109 weeks today. We've had lots of rain. It's the wettest April we have had for years. Everything is turning green. It's beautiful. Heading into winter soon. Our third winter winter without you. I remember how you used to curl up under our slow combustion heater. Skye could never do that but you could because you were so much smaller. That was your favourite place on a cold winters day. Love you little girl. Xxx
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 #118 
Hey Skye doggy, 44 weeks today since we said goodbye. Still so raw some days. I still miss you as much as the first day you left us. Time goes by so fast. It's nearly your first year at Rainbow Bridge. We have been taking Cuba on some of your walks that you loved. I know you would love to share them as you had such a good time on them. Sometimes it's hard as I wish you could be with us too. We are trying to teach Cuba to fetch a ball but he's not very interested. You loved to play ball and we had to slow you down or you would have played all day. Love you baby girl. Xxx
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Hey Cassie dog, 110 weeks today. I got a sign from you and Skye this morning. Thank you my little girls. I'm off walking this weekend with my hiking friends. Hopefully it won't rain too much. I know you will be with me. I found some of your stuff yesterday baby girl. I tried not to cry but couldn't help it. I have put it away with all your things. Love you beautiful girl. Xxx
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 #120 
It's pushing two years now pretty hard since your Cassie girl went to heaven.  I did the same thing with my Julian cat, and finally lost track around 106 weeks.  You've kept closer watch than I did.  We love them so much,they are so unforgettable and leave a hole in our hearts and our lives. We continue on, we have to, but we never forget them.  Sighs, smiles and tears to us both.
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