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ZOEY

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Tommorrow will be 2 weeks that my little Zoey is gone, I just cannot get over this - its driving me insane.  I think of her all the time, everything I do - at home, at work, I am really trying so hard to let go, but it is so hard....
I phoned the vet again to find out exactly what caused her death - she said it was consolodation of the lungs, all her organs collapsed, but how does that just happen - she cannot tell me..
I sometimes feel like I should have seen something , you know, but I didn't.
How am I going to get over this - she was just tooo young to go.
My life will never be the same again...ever!!!!

Meriam

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Zoey,

May you find peace in your heart. It is seven months now that Hershey is gone and we all miss him.

Laughter has slowly returned and Sil, Moz and Kugs are enjoying Spring in the Rockies.

My sympathy.

Meriam
basil

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I am so sorry for the loss of Zoey.  Dont try to let go, you never will, she was your darling.  Things will get a little easier eventually, until then, I am thinking of you.  Much Love, Di xxx

Georgeann

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I am so sorry about your loss of Zoey.  Two weeks is such a short time.  You are so right, It is hard; in fact it is a nightmare.  I lost my little Angel Christopher over 14 months ago and I am still overwhelmed with pain.  I cry for him every day and know that I will Forever.  He was my Heart, My Soul and My Best Friend.  I look at his sweet little face and cannot believe that God took him from me.  He was 11 1/2 and had so much life left in him.  It just breaks my heart that I had to let him go. 

We learn to move forward because we have no choice, but I do not think that we ever recover from their loss.  This is a great site with incredible people who understand your loss.  We are all here when you need anything.  You and Zoey are in my Prayers.

Big Hugs
Georgeann and Christopher
Forever
rupertsmum

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To Zoey

Take each day one at a time and as they say time is a great healer.  You will still feel sad lots but thats o.k. You have had a great loss and will feel it for a while yet.  I miss Rupert sooo much and he has been gone 18 weeks now.  He was my friend and companion and he can never be replaced.

Trying to find out what went wrong won't help.  Sometimes we miss signs.  I never knew he had kidney disease until the last year.  He always drank a lot of water so I never knew he was ill.  He was 15 and I felt it was too soon but it was their time to return home and nothing we do can change that.

Be kind to yourself Ruperts Mum
Jacki

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Dear Zoey,

           You sound just like me. The day after I lost my Baby Bunz, I too had to go back to the vet to be told what happened to my baby. I think I just needed to be where Baby Bunz last was. It is so hard to lose our furbabies. Please do not punish yourself with all the what ifs. You loved and cared for zoey for many years, she knows how much you loved her. Everyday i take comfort in knowing that one day I will see my Baby Bunz again, but for now, I am grateful for all the wonderful, caring people here at petloss. We will take care of each other.

                             Bunny snuggles,

                         Jacki, Baby Bunz Mommy

                            


ZOEY

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Thankyou everyone for the replies, it really does make my heart feel a bit better knowing you are all out there.  I know it is going to take a long time for me to heel, but I do have my other four babies to love, and I know they are also grieving as I am.

ZOEY

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Thankyou everyone for the replies, it really does make my heart feel a bit better knowing you are all out there.  I know it is going to take a long time for me to heel, but I do have my other four babies to love, and I know they are also grieving as I am.

mw0263

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I am sorry for your loss and also feel your pain.  Yu are in my thoughts and prayers. 

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