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HerculesZeus

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I have a dog. Her name was Tasha. It was a small dog a maltese. I was in La when this happened 140miles away. 5/3 she died early morning of a car crash. 5/3 6pm i recived the news. First i coulnt belive it i was shocked. It was until i got home and in the shower before i was crying and yelling.

 

She was a good dog sometimes she disobeys me but hey she was only a puppy. She would start licking you when you would blow air near here. Then she would roll on her belly or run under the bed to sleep. I remember everyday when i go to school she would hop in the car and ride along. I usually eat my breakfast in the car. I can recall that friday i was giving her a peice of my food. She always had the cute begging look on her face. I could never resist that sigh.... I never really got to say goodbye i never even saw the body. The way she died i belive was instant which i am thankful for small favors. You know i never really knew how much i needed her till i was gone. Usually i would just burst out in song singing her name. Tasha Tasha Tasha and so on and so forth. I was never really popular at school. But she made me feel #1 when i got home. I just want to say i really miss her alot.Thank you

How can i let go of this sadness. Noone seems to care about her expect me. I can bring myself to ask my family to grieve with me. Even thought she touched us all at some point. Thanks For the rainbow bridge poem i cried alott during it.
dianae2002

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Dear HerculesZeus, I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Tasha. It was totally unexpected so it must have been  terrible shock for you to know that. I also lost my sweet baby Jessie 6 weeks ago. She was not sick or something and one day my mom just found her dead laying on the carpet. I was so sad when I heard that. I could not believe and still after so long is difficult to think she's not there anymore. Like you, my baby was with me in during the last years of highschool which were tough. It's amazing how much love and comforta can a sweet dog give you!!! You can always search for comfort here. There are so many people dealing with the loss of a beloved pet. We do believe that our fur-babies are in a beautiful place enjoying while they wait to meet us again. My prayers for you,
 
Diana, Jessie's mom.
 
My Jessie, I miss you so much.
 
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Nuggetsmum

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Hi HereculesZeus,

I so now what you mean about family not understanding how you feel and not grieving with you. My family is the same. I lost my boy 4 months ago and I am no closer to dealing with things. I miss him so much. But yours was such a horrific shock, you never got a chance to say goodbye. Please come to us here and seek solace. There are so mnay amazing people here and I don't know what I would do without them. We all understand as we all love our babies like you did.

A big cuddle to you,

Nuggetsmum Alana
MrMeowgy

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I am so very sorry for the loss of Tasha. It was so unexpected and I think tht makes it so much harder.Your baby is an angel now and she will watch over you. She knows how much you love her and miss her. Maybe your family just can't absorb your sadness. Some people just can't. You have come to the right place for understanding and support. The people here have been such a help and comfort to me. I lost my beloved Mr. Meowgy suddenly 2 months ago, and I have relied on this site as my rock and my refuge. We all are sharing your sorrow. I wish you peace and comfort. Donna, Mr. Meowgy's mom

KatoWolf

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Dear HerculesZeus:

I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. It's soooooo hard to lose one we love soooooo much and one that is so full of spirit and life. It's a huge loss and it takes time to feel better. I didn't get to say goodbye to my boy Kato either, but now I think of it as "till we meet again" cause HerculesZeus we will see our babies again. Unfortunately, not everyone feels the loss as we do or understands or knows what to say - but you know what? we're the lucky ones cause "we get it" we know the wonderful depth of love between us and our babies. Please write more and tell us more about your Tasha girl when you feel up to it.

This is a wonderful site and it's good to be with others who understand. We are here for you, we understand and you are not alone.
Big Hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss Hang in there!
KatoWolf

sweetpepe

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What a terrible heartache to lose a pet so young to such a terrible accident.  I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

HerculesZeus

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Thanks people today i read the rainboe bridge poem and it brought tears to my eyes tha ti will be abvle to see Tasha again whole and young. I currently have made a memorial with the limited supplies i have with rocks and cardboard with a eulogy. I hope that when my family members see this they will to open up and we can grieve and hopefully heal togther

HerculesZeus

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Just a picture of my dog more pictures coming up
WooWooWoo

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I am so, so sorry to learn of your loss of your precious Tasha in a tragic accident.   When a young one is taken so suddenly, without warning, I think the grieving is almost unbearably difficult.   Please know that she knew you loved her and she felt your love for her in her very last moments.  I have no doubt about that.  And, her loving spirit is still right beside you. 

If your family will not grieve with you,  please feel free to come here for support.   We will listen and be here for you.  When you feel up to it, tell us more about sweet Tasha.

Sending hugs,
Melissa
Betsy's forever mom 
HerculesZeus

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I Finally managed to let go not completly of Tasha but im worried that the holidays will bring her back.

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